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Pick-up Sticks

 

Uncle Peg’s Chronicles

October 5, 2023

Pick-up Sticks

 

This photo made me smile. It’s a pick-up sticks kind of week, I think. This handsome lad is the son of Michael and Hellen Holmes, and grandson of Glenn and Mitzi Holmes. Snatched from Glenn’s Facebook with permission. William N Holmes line.




 

LOOKING AHEAD

 

 

Last week, my sister came for a visit and we gadded about. It was most relaxing and fun. When I sat down to look at my chronicle, I said to myself, “too late.” It was still just information dump. So, I didn’t finish it until this week. Pat and I talked a little about the chronicles. She mentions that it’s TMI: too much information. I’m not quite sure what to do about that, as it is, besides news and photos, also my research journal made a bit fancy. She also had a bit of a revelation from our conversation. We were discussing the perpetuity of storytelling from grandparent to grandchild. I mentioned that I thought Charles was the storyteller in the family, and that’s where Mum got the stories. She hadn’t connected the short distance of time between Charles and Mum, for some reason: the same distance of time between her and her grandchildren, and between me and Winston.

 

This perhaps bears repeating, and I stretch my imagination to picture James, William, Carrie, Peter and Charles at their tables with paper, straight pens, and inkwells. One hundred years ago, the post office ran letters between these five Holmes siblings, planning the summer reunion of 1924. Making lists of grandchildren. Attempting to locate the descendants of their late siblings – Fanny, Hattie, and Louisa. For my generation, those eight siblings are our collective great-grandparents. Not so distant a relationship, is it? Real people, relocated all over Canada and the United States. Forgetting their roots as they lived their busy lives, with the children of Daniel and Charlotte making a last-ditch attempt to bring them together.

 

Perhaps losing touch is just the way of the world. We haven’t enough time, interest, or inclination. I hang on to my Facebook for dear life, not because I love it so and enjoy the scroll through the mainly meaningless memes and suggestions from Meta, but because of my reconnections with friends and family from my past. Important people.

 

A century, that’s how long it’s been since that first of five annual reunions. Do you realize how short that time really is? I’ve passed my seventh decade mark and it seems like I was just a child romping at the playground down the street, visiting my grandparents and cousins, going off to school, finding a career and retiring, losing loved ones along the way. The memories get fuzzy now. Pat and I did some recalling of escapades when she was home. We wracked our brains to think of the names of some childhood friends.

 

I really am thinking about what to do, and the months are flying by and the time is almost here. Those five years – 1924 to 1928 – our parents of some great level – mine were greats – gathered every summer. They met in three places – Petitcodiac, New Brunswick, area; Lincoln, Maine, area; and China, Maine, area. They took family, individual and candid photos. They wrote about their gatherings in newspapers. They compiled a history, albeit flawed. Imagine the time and effort it took to contact all those people, even those who could not attend. Oh, to have one of those letters. I want to do something to bring back the spirit of those five years.

 

For now, I am starting simply with trying to make the chronicles more interesting to you. Starting small as I ponder. I’m including more photos. I’m using titles instead of ~~~s. And, following Jeanni’s advice, I’m trying to do better in identifying who I am talking about in articles. I’m scratching at the boundaries of the box. There might be some trials and errors as I approach 2024. If they work, great; if not, out they go.

 

There are always sticks to be picked up at the farm. This is what it looked like two weeks prior to Pat’s visit.




 

GRATITUDE

 

Last weekend, we celebrated Canadian Thanksgiving. I have a couple of ladies I am grateful to for their encouraging comments, but I want you all to know that I am grateful for each one of you, for you are my family. Some are closer than others, of course, as we are siblings and first cousins; some are far distant relations with only minute amounts of shared DNA and interest in the same ancestors; and some are in between. To those of you who hit an icon button or make a comment on a post or send an email – know that you make my day.

 

I am grateful this week to sisters Julia Nolte and Celia Anklesaria. These emails picked me right up from my doldrums! Their mother, Janet, is the 90th birthday celebrant mentioned in the September 28th chronicle. Charles R Holmes line.

 

From Julia – “My goodness, Peg!  I just got home and downloaded your latest Chronicle and was then stunned by all the pictures!”

 

From Celia – “Enjoyed reading the latest Chronicle and was delightfully surprised to see pics of Nolte Family (plus) members.  Enjoyed the letter about the Snider brothers, the love poem, the Tribute to Jerry, and the signage for the Holmes/Burnam Sawmill Trail.  So glad you like to chronicle family chronicles! I was unable to join Emily and Julia at Mom's 90th birthday; nevertheless, with the assistance of ZOOM ‘The Kids’ and grandkids were able to say hello . . .”


MY GENEALOGY GOALS

 

  • Chronicle several times, and publish on Thursday morning.
  • Keep writing my next article for Generations, which is about the will of William Lotham. Francis Holmes is mentioned in his inventory both as owing money and being owed money.
  • Continue indexing old New Brunswick obituaries and death notices for the NBGS website project.
  • Spend a bit of time on Moore family research.
  • Think about and make lists for a welcome back in person party for our genealogy society branch in October. It will have a book theme – old genealogy/history books on a popup library display, and a for sale table for books we longer need. Two short speakers, ten minutes each tops. Leftover time will be for reacquainting and meeting new people, and looking at books.
  • Find four three speakers for January to May of 2024, for the genealogy society.
  • In the evening, after chores are done, edit the Maggie Holmes and Billy Snider family (second child of Daniel and Charlotte) the same way I did the Louisa, William and Carrie lines. No rush on that.

 

I had to focus on the October workshop meeting, as it’s coming up quickly. One of my speakers can’t make it, so I have to prepare a short talk. I continued on with Elias Snider. And I wrapped a Christmas gift. Smile.

 

DRAWN FROM A HAT

Featured this week are Mary Jane (Holmes) Hamilton and Margaret Rose (Holmes) Clifford. How wonderful that I picked them out together, for they know each other well. They are sisters, the daughters of Bryce and Inez (McVicar) Holmes; they have another sister, Anne Marie. They are in the Charles R Holmes line. Please correct me if any info is incorrect, ladies.

Mary is older than Margie, and both of them are younger than Anne, and that is all I have to say about that. I saw them both quite often when we were young, and then there was quite a spell before I saw them again. Last summer 2022, we got together for our Aunt Phyl’s memorial service, and had a great visit. Mary and her husband, Randy Hamilton, have four grown children – Shawn, Randi, Nicholas, and Morgan, and five grandchildren.

Margie married Brent Clifford, and they have four grown children – Anne, Mary, John and Elizabeth, as well as four grandchildren.

The header photo for the blog shows cousins descended from Floyd and Minnie Holmes, in a row, in the front yard of what we remember as a prosperous farm during our childhood. If you visit the blog header, you will see the cousins in this order: Margie Clifford, Doug Holmes, Mary Hamilton, Karl Holmes, Anne Gautreau, Cindy Steeves, Mike Holmes, Peg Vasseur, and Brenda Batchelor. Missing are Bob Holmes and Sue Davis (deceased), Paul Moore, Pat Booth and Jennifer Bell (with deep regrets, unable to attend). Blog header: https://grandmasgarret.blogspot.com/

News From Holmes

October – what a nice time of year for a wedding. On October 8th, Gracie Patterson married Callans Flanagan in Springdale, Arkansas. They will reside in Charleston, Arkansas. Gracie is in the Charles R Holmes line, and she is the daughter of Clay and Marika (McGinnis) Patterson. Callans is the son of Joe Flanagan and Gaylene Calhoun.



Gracie Lynella Patterson – Clay Patterson and Marika McGinnis – Robert McGinnis and Beverly MacKillop – Raymond MacKillop and Lillian Shipley – James McKillop and Arletta Holmes – Charles R Holmes and Phoebe McMonagle – Daniel Holmes and Charlotte Hoyt.

My memory is fuzzy, but I do recall the MacKillop family ringing our doorbell when I was a child, and Mum so happy to see them: Ray and Lillian and their three young’uns, Beverly, Betty, and Ray. I seem to remember a fun visit with these cousins I didn’t know. Although Ray and his brother, Cecil, were a bit older than Mum, the families were close when they were young. James McKillop, for those of you who remember Uncle Fred and Aunt Tress McKillop, was Uncle Fred’s brother. Arletta died when Cecil and Ray were young teens, and the boys spent some summers helping out on Gramp and Uncle Fred’s farms and when chores and haying were done, playing and swimming at the brook.

In the photo are Marika and Gracie in her mother’s wedding dress.



Beverly enjoyed writing letters and sewing. She and I corresponded some before she passed away in 2020. Methinks she sewed quilts. Marika told me that her mother made her wedding dress, and Gracie wore it to her rehearsal dinner. Also attending were Marika’s sister Andrea and brothers Brooks and Rodney. Robert and Beverly had seven children: Candace, Brooks, Rodney, Marika, Juel, Ryan, and Andrea. Candace passed away in her early twenties, and Juel in infancy.

You may have met Roger and Betty (McGinnis) at the 2014 reunion at the Hill Grove Farm and Cornhill Hall. Mum was glad to see her again after so long. They, with their daughter, Jordann, travelled from New Hampshire to Arkansas to attend Gracie’s wedding.



Back, left to right: Roger Sylvestre, Brooks McGinnis, and Rodney McGinnis.

Front, left to right: Betty MacKillop Sylvestre, Andrea McGinnis Drollinger, Marika McGinnis Patterson and Jordann Sylvestre Archut.

 

 

KATHERINE’S POETRY

(Continued from the chronicle of September 28.) The author, Katherine Eggleston Junkerman Holmes, was the wife of Fenwicke Lindsay Holmes, son of William Nelson Holmes, grandson of Daniel Holmes. I don’t know much about her. She was born in Mississippi in 1874, and married Fenwicke in 1919, becoming a mother to his adopted son, Louis. I don’t know her date of death. The link will take you to a brief biography. William N Holmes line. You can read the short book at https://archive.org/details/fragranceoflove00junk


 

 

OUR LOYALIST HERITAGE

I snatched this photo from the NBGS Facebook group. Someone is restoring memorial stones in Fredericton, NB, and I thought this one was appropriate for us, as we Holmes descendants have both Patriot and Loyalist ancestors. Fredericton is the capital city of New Brunswick. Here’s a good link for you to read: https://uelac.ca/monuments/fredericton-monument/



Inscription on the Plaque: To the memory of the United Empire Loyalists who settled in this region following the American Revolution. Compelled to leave their homes in the Thirteen Colonies for their loyalty to the crown, they founded the province of New Brunswick in 1784 to secure British institutions for themselves and their prosperity. Many of these loyalists lie buried here. Spem Reduxit. Erected 1983 by the Fredericton Branch United Empire Loyalists Association of Canada on the 200th anniversary of the arrival of the Loyalists in this province. (Spem reduxit means hope restored.)

OUR FAMILY HISTORY LESSON

Continued from chronicle of September 28

William Oliver Snider’s Ancestry

I was a bit mixed up in the lineage last week, but I’ve done a bit more research. I don’t know too much yet about William’s great-grandparents, but they were the immigrant ancestors from Switzerland or Germany.

William Oliver Snider (c. 1827 – 1916) – son of Elias Snider Jr (1782 – 1856) and Deborah Ketchum – son of Elias Snider Sr (1754 – 1811) – son of Johann Jacob Schneider and Mary Magdalena Lang (baptized c. 1732). Johann was the son of Christian Schneider and Mary was the daughter of Elias Lang – and that is where the name Elias came from.

Johann ‘Jacob’ Schneider and Mary Magdalena Lang had the following sons and daughters. The dates should all be considered circa for now. I have taken them from a source that recommends that they be verified and Find a Grave, which differs from some other sources. All were born in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania. All came to New Brunswick except Christian, who stayed in Pennsylvania. Martin later went to Ontario.

Martin 1753 – 1828

Elias Sr 1754 – 1811

Christian 1756 – 1827

Baultus 1757 - 1809

Peter 1758 – 1830

Barbara 1762 –

Mary 1764 - 1855

Jacob 1773 - 1854

 

Martin, Elias, Christian, Baltus and Peter all fought in the Revolutionary War, and all survived. War sometimes breaks up families, and in the Schneider/Snider family, Christion took the side of the patriots; the rest were loyal to the king.

William, who I fondly refer to as Uncle Billy as I never heard him called anything else, married Margaret Eliza Holmes, our Aunt Maggie. Margaret was the second child of Daniel and Charlotte Holmes.

I knew that they were related to each other, so I delved into that. How closely were they related? Not quite so close as our mutual ancestors, Captain Isaac Ketchum and Mary Elizabeth Ketchum. Now I know we can sort of legitimately call them Uncle Billy and Aunt Maggie – even though they aren’t our initial uncle and aunt. Maggie is my great-great aunt; Billy is my third cousin five times removed. I think. So, if you are the great-grandchild of Daniel and Charlotte (Hoyt) Holmes, like I am, you would be the same.

Here’s the chart.




Page 3 of petition, continued from September 28th chronicle

This relates to Elias Sr and his brother, Peter; two sons of Jacob and Mary Schneider.


 

https://www.ancestry.ca/imageviewer/collections/3712/images/40939_307117-00007?pId=15477

 

 

Be It Remembered

That on the 27th day of March AD 1786 The within named Elias Snider & Peter Snider Personally appeared, and made oath that from the 15th of July 1785 to the 24th October following, they were in actual Service in the King’s Army, and that from the said 24th Of October to the 25th March 1784, they resided in the province of New Brunswick, and these deponents further say that they were utterly incapable of professing or delivering to the Commissioners appointed by Act of Parliament passed in the 23re year of the reign of this present Majesty’ entitled “an act for appointing Commissioners to inquire into the losses & services of all such persons who have suffered in their rights properties & professions during the late unhappy dissensions in America, in consequence of their loyalty to His Majesty and attachment to the British Government.” Or at their office any Memorial, Claim or Request, for Aid or Relief on account of these Deponents’ losses during the late unhappy dissensions in America, with the time Limited by the Said Act, for the receiving of such Claims, by reason that these Deponent were during all the time aforesaid (viz between the 15th July 1783 &the 25th March 1784 employed in the Kings’ Service or resident in New Brunswick where these presence was indispensably necessary for the Support & preservation of their families.

Signed in presence of                                                                     The mark of

Ed Winston                                                                                         Elias X Snider

                                                                                                                The mark of

                                                                                                                Peter X Snider

 

Fredericton, Province of New Brunswick

Sworn to this 17th of March 1786

                Before me

                                Ed Winston



                                                One of His Majesty’s Council.


Winston likes to pick up sticks and leaves on his daily walks. ~ Julie

My grandson, Winston. Charles R Holmes line.

 

 

I love the curiousity of a child.

 

 

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