Thursday, April 17, 2025

Bright Spots

 

Uncle Peg’s Chronicles

April 17, 2025

“Bright Spots

 

 


 

“These were their settlements. And they kept good family records.”[i]

Don’t forget to look for the title which is embedded in the chronicle.

 

 

GRATITUDE

 

Thanks to Gretchen, Karl, Jolynda, Kevin, Grace, and Matriarch Janet. Gretchen and Kevin are new names to you; they are Holmes cousins who are in the new Holmespun group; Karl just joined us as well.

FAMILY ALBUM

 


I do not know all of the people. Some of you will recognize a few or all of them.

“Holmespun”

I started a new Facebook group called "Holmespun." You should be able to type that in to the Facebook search box and find it for a while. Be sure and add the "l."

The purpose of this group is to work together as genealogists on our Holmes family - sticking pretty close to Samuel Holmes and Elizabeth Fountain Holmes Seaman, their parents, and their children. We will work together to locate and share records pertaining to these people.

If you, a Holmes family genealogist, wish to join this small group, please let me know. Prepare to work.

 

1924 to 1928

 

Those are the years that our Holmes ancestors spent renewing relationships that had somehow fallen by the wayside but with organization, letter writing, and challenging travel – by hook or by crook – they managed to come together again. They reacquainted and rediscovered their family ties. And then, one by one, they died, and many of those ties died with them.

2024 to 2028

It is bittersweet that so many of our family gatherings take place at a celebration of life, when we gather to remember our loved ones who’ve passed on and share stories and memories, laughter and tears. The William Nelson and Anna Columbia (Heath) Holmes line of our folks seem to get together more often than most (not just for goodbyes), or perhaps I just hear about them the most. Thanks to Jolynda for sending me the photos of the memorial service for Rick Morey, husband of Michelle (Holmes) Morey, who is the daughter of Butch. I included a photo of some of the children at the end, to make you smile. That’s the family album photo on the first page; I don’t know all the people.

1925 was the year that our Daniel Holmes descendants gathered in South China, Maine. I haven’t written about it too much this year. For those of you who are new, Daniel Holmes was the son of Samuel Holmes Jr, grandson of Samuel Holmes Sr, and great-grandson of Nathaniel Holmes, who I am currently working on. I am, at this point in time, flummoxed, with some knowledge of other Nathaniels clouding my vision.

I wonder, if they had sat down and wrote out their predictions for a century later – 2025 – what they would have written. The great war was in their past, the depression and WWII, in their future. Several more local wars and a cold war would occur, the event that was 911, and then, a small event - a gathering of Daniel’s descendants in South China, Maine. At that time, Glenn and Mitzi were looking forward to the birth of three grandchildren – Andrew and Abigail, the twins, and Thomas, who all attended the celebration of life for Rick. Then came a pandemic, and well, there’s now. That’s why I love family history, so I can bury my head and shut out the now for a while.

Rick and Michelle married in 2021. Michelle generously shared photos of their adventures and some of us enjoyed watching the loving and peaceful interlude of their lives. It brightened our days, Michelle, as we scrolled by your albums. Michelle read “A Letter to Her Husband” at the memorial, and Jolynda said she did well. In between all the bad events of history there are times of brightness to hold onto.

I hope that, in general, our ancestors are proud of us and our accomplishments. I know the reality is that much of our life events are scary, tragic, and divisive, but I hope that we can think ahead of our descendants in 2125 with hope that there will be bright spots for them in the midst of the realities of life. Who those descendants will be, those folks we won’t know, but they will be woven from our own strands of life.

An Interesting Obituary

This may become a regular feature as I am working on the genealogies of Sam Jr’s siblings. It is not part of News From Holmesjust obituaries I find that are out of the ordinary.

This is a rather ordinary obituary of Robert F Goodwin (1918 – 1974). Born North Dakota, died Washington state. Seems like he had a rather challenging life. He was divorced and had one son, potentially still living so we’ll leave him out. Reader warning – the death certificate is disturbing.

Robert F Goodwin – Justin Goodwin and Clara Deiubel – Thomas Burton Goodwin and Mary Jane Boss – Robert Boss and Elizabeth Simmons – Rufus Smith Boss and Sarah King – John Boss and Deborah Holmes -  Samuel Holmes Sr and Elizabeth Fountain.

Can't insert pictures. Request an email if you want them.

 

FAMILY HISTORY LESSON

In studying the life of Nathaniel Holmes, probable son of Isaac Holmes and father of Samuel Holmes Sr, I found several points to examine. My actual conclusion from this study is coming to a close for now. I found several Nathaniels in the areas of interest where our Holmes families lived. I limited myself to Connecticut and New York, as the early Holmeses in Massachusetts do not appear to me to be related to us. By the process of elimination, I dismissed a few from other locations in Connecticut and New York who don’t seem to fit into our family, at least not that I could see.

I am not prepared yet to declare Nathaniel our ancestor with complete confidence. Who knows, perhaps there are more goldmines of information lying around in archives that no one has had the time or volunteers to digitize. I recognize some of the pieces of knowledge that Fen found by hiring researchers to dig into their old tomes. But there may still be more out there, waiting to be found.

Will the real Nathaniel Holmes please stand up? Wait, they were all real – just like we are. But, sorting them out was a dilemma. If ages were listed, that helped.

Fen wondered if Nathaniel went to North Castle. I thought he settled in Mount Pleasant, maybe after a stay at North Castle on the way on his way. But, after a couple of weeks of looking at and pondering the references, I am back to Fen’s conclusion – minus the Anna. I thought she wasn’t Anna Rand. Now, I don’t even know if she was an Anna.

I had hoped to present to you this week my proof beyond a doubt that Samuel Holmes Sr was the son of Nathaniel. I cannot, even though I believe he was, based on the muster rolls. The Nathaniel Holmes men that I found may have all been related. I found three men of interest, and I call them NH 1722, NH 1735, and NH1750. Ours is, based on the muster roll, NH 1722. NH 1750 enlisted in the Continental Army in Greenwich, Fairfield, CT. That’s where one line of John’s family went, and he’s too young to be our ancestor and fit into our lineage. I don’t think I have found his probate, or decided which deeds belong to him or a different Nathaniel – but I found, at FamilySearch, in bits and pieces; at NARA; and at Ancestry – his 24 personal pages of military history. This helped me with the process of elimination. Who, I wonder, was he? Age wise, he could be the son of our NH1722, but our ancestor was in Bedford, Westchester, NY, not in Greenwich, a bedroom community to Stamford, Fairfield, CT. That is not a proven fact – perhaps he was visiting family in Greenwich – but on the scales of pro and con – I’ve put him on the con side; perhaps he was a nephew. NH1735 applied for a military pension in 1819, and lived in New York, place not given. I don’t know who he is, but I do not think he is in our direct line.

I was able to find and research NH1750, who served in the Continental Army, and lived until at least 1828 and perhaps died in New York City in 1838 (according to an individual looking for information to prove he was a Son of the American Revolution). I did find that his wife’s name was Sarah and that about 1820, Nathaniel and Sarah had a crippled granddaughter, not named, living with them. Therefore, he had at least one child. We know that there was a Nathaniel and Anna living in North Castle. That could be NH1750. It is quite possible that NH1735 lived in Mount Pleasant. It that was our Nathaniel 1722, he lived to be a very old man.

Here is NH1750’s file at Ancestry. You can also find it at NARA. Be sure and use his number: S 45380.

https://www.ancestry.ca/imageviewer/collections/1995/images/MIUSA1775D_135896-00273?pId=30009

https://catalog.archives.gov/search?page=1&q=45380

I hope I didn’t leave you too befuddled. On the other hand, I am, so you may be also.

Suffice it to say, my conclusion, for the time being, is that our Nathaniel Holmes was born c. 1722. I do not know his wife’s name. He was mustered along with Samuel Holmes, both of Bedford, NY, in 1760, probably his son, and they may have served in the French and Indian War, possibly in a battle against Montreal, Quebec. Thanks to Byron for that bit of info. He is, in my opinion, one of the four children of Isaac and Deborah (MNU) Holmes of Bedford, Westchester, New York. I have also concluded that Samuel Holmes and Anne Orry were not in our direct line.

This ends week sixteen of our centennial virtual celebration of 1925 - 2025.

 

I will be quiet for the next week or so as I make family history with Julie and Eleanor.

 

To brighten your day:

 

 A cute photo of the children at Rick's memorial service. Request the email if you want to see it.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 



[i] The Message. I Chronicles 4:33

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