Thursday, February 12, 2026

My Objective to be Objective

 

Uncle Peg’s Chronicles

February 12, 2026

My Objective to be Objective

 

“These were their settlements. And they kept good family records.”[1]

Don’t forget to look for the title which is embedded in the chronicle.

 


 

 

FAMILY ALBUM

 


I found the header photo online. This is where Fenwick lived from 1913 to 1917. Not sure where his home was – perhaps not even built yet. He purchased property in 1914.

 

https://www.facebook.com/groups/HistoricFloridaX/posts/4380944122229244/

 

And I Quote:

 

“I love the rambles.  So, from a fellow ‘rambler,’ keep up the good work!  I'm learning lots.” ~ Ruth

 

“I received this from our town librarian, who has at least a dozen non-fiction books to his credit, but also has done fiction.  No best sellers, but he loves to write.  Worth at least a Google Books try! The titles strike me as fiction, but I may be basing it on the Steven King authorship of one of them. Hope they have something that interests you!” ~ Jeanni (A blurb follows.)

 

Thanks to Jeanni who went looking for how-to nonfiction books for me, in reply to my comment in the last chronicle.

 

“Is Holstead the same as Halstead?” ~ Julia

 

It can be, Julia. Spelling was not a big issue at the time. I don’t know if we are related to those particular Halsteads, but our Holstead’s are also referred to as Holsted’s in the early records of Nova Scotia.

 

 

1925 to 1928

 

Those are the years that our Holmes ancestors spent renewing relationships that had somehow fallen by the wayside but with organization, letter writing, and challenging travel – by hook or by crook – they managed to come together again. They reacquainted and rediscovered their family ties. And then, one by one, they died, and many of those ties died with them.

2025 to 2028

My choir director is always saying, “that’s the first mistake I made today,” or sometimes “the eleventh mistake,” or something like that. Well, I made a mistake, actually about thirty of them, and now I am taking the time to correct them all, and it is not easy. And, it’s in footnotes – citations. Not the most fun thing, and usually I check those things after in the final revision.

I decided to do the easy thing, and as you know, using the easy means of doing just about anything doesn’t always work out. I decided to cut and paste the citations from the University of New Brunswick Archived Newspapers. I did the same thing for other sites. Eventually, I needed to refer to one of them, so I clicked on the link and said to myself, “Peggy, that is not the right newspaper.” It was a newspaper from 1926; Fenwick died in 1917, and there was nothing on the page that referred to him or to Rat Portage. When it happened a second time, I said to myself, “Oh oh, Peggy, you have a problem.”

How to fix it? Go to every footnote from that source. Look at the number, and find it in the text. See what it is about. Go searching the full text box for the article again. Sometimes it pops right up, and sometimes it does not – I have to put in a lot of key words to find it.

When I find it, I correct it, Chicago Style. I have a pink sticky note with the order in which to type it.

All because I didn’t read the Citation instructions provided by the University. I am to write my citations following their one guideline.

One good guideline for life is to learn from our mistakes. Another lesson under the belt.

My response to Jeanni’s friend.

Thanks to Jeanni, who put me in touch with a writer friend/librarian friend of hers,

in regards to advice on writing non-fiction. This is my response to her challenge.

She hooked, lined, and sinkered me.

Good morning, Jeanni and Dan. I went to your website, Dan, and had a read. Excellent, varied list of accomplishments. Especially tickled to see one co-written with your daughter.

 

Thank you for your suggestions, and they are written on my list of new book wishes. Darn, what a way to start - a passive sentence. That Jeanni, isn't she a corker! Stuck a challenge right in the middle of the email thread:  "I doubt she will reach out, being quite an introvert." I'll email anybody - just hate picking up the phone. 

 

I write for my "cousins" in a bi-weekly newsletter I call "Uncle Peg's Chronicles," and I write for a journal called "Generations." My New Brunswick Genealogy Society publishes the journal four times a year, and my aim is to dress it up a little and, well, to view my name in print, to be perfectly honest. I pick out a long-dead ancestor and write their story. Imbedded, I try to include, for my genealogical audience, hints as to where and how to find things about their own ancestors. I find the "showing" in non-fiction to be a challenge to accomplish - way more limited to the truth about them than a character I might create from my imagination, if I can even ferret that information out, and sticking to my objective to be objective. But, I give it my best shot and editor Dave always inserts my jottings in the journal . . . 

 

My rule that I follow to a point, and then I drift off to variations on a theme: Introduction - three or however many main points I need, and sub-points (and do use either nouns or verbs, not both, for said points), and conclusion relating back to the introduction. Basic as can be. Writing 101. Current article: Intro - a bridge in Rat Portage. I: New Brunswick. II: Ontario. III: (back to) New Brunswick (wife dies). IV: (back to) Ontario, alone. V: Florida, alone. (Tried to cross the border in a drunken state, had to sober up to enter the USA). Conclusion - bridging the gaps between said places.

 

Character development: Fenwick, a man with lots of charm, charms his bride, who sings for temperance meetings; charms his fellow new settlers in new settlement; takes out lots of mortgages (all his life) in the new settlement and back home; has two periods of insolvency; goes to Florida and works. He dies alone, in Florida, without a headstone. He always works, although at various careers. He starts out with quite a lot of community involvement, but it gradually dwindles. He dreams big, but seems to me, too big for his britches. He either lies or embezzles his story about being a mayor; he was a reeve but never a mayor. He is a functional alcoholic.

 

Because I worked for a functional alcoholic, and because he was my favourite leader ever (he hated to be called the boss), I have a personal bias in favour of my great-great uncle Fenwick. Said leader hit bedrock, and climbed back up. I don't think Uncle Fenwick did.

 

He caused a lot of problems for a lot of people. I can't imagine his wife's life. And yet, in my family, there are six Fenwick(e)s. Why? I wonder. My great-grandfather, his brother, did not like him one bit. Others obviously did - they probably saw more of his charm and less of his everyday self.

 

And this email is for your interest - to answer Jeanni's statement and hopefully brighten your day - not looking for assistance, just rambling down my road to Rat Portage in Keewatin, Manitoba, and Ontario (it took a little war).

 

If I live long enough, perhaps I'll write the book I want. In the meantime, I'll adapt the fictional advice to my needs. I don't want anything too technical, and I do have a newer version of "The Little Brown Handbook," an experienced editor, and several beta readers. I will buy Goldberg's book and probably King's as well; add it to my growing collection: Lamott, Littrell, Thom, and Zinsser.

 

Enjoy your day!

 

FAMILY HISTORY LESSON

My article is almost finished – a few loose ends to tie up and a gazillion revisions. Today, I give you some of my introduction and conclusion – which should refer back to the introduction in a non-fiction article. I’d like your take on the bridge analogy – do you like it or dislike it or think it a bit too much or unnecessary. You don’t have to help me revise, but if you see a typo or read a sentence that doesn’t make sense to you, you can tell me.

INTRODUCTION

 

NEW BRUNSWICK

 

My story bridges the gaps between places, times, and events in the rather short life spans of Howard Fenwick Holmes, my great-great uncle, and his wife, Maud Marion English, who moved from place to place and back again. They had no children, at least that made it to a census taking. They crossed the bridge from New Brunswick to Ontario and back to New Brunswick; alone, Fenwick returned to Ontario, and then went to Florida. The events are the piers girded between the life events I do not know about.                                                                                                                                                                                         The allure of traveling and living far from the family home exists.  Fenwick and Maud’s interest drew them towards the wilderness of Keewatin and Rainy River, which soon included Rat Portage of Manitoba and then Ontario. In 1905, the name of the community changed to Kenora.                                                           In my Holmes family, travel to distant, sometimes unsettled, places, was common. The reasons differed for individuals and eras:  necessity, a better life, a spirit of adventure, and even running away. Fenwick’s Puritan immigrant ancestor, Francis Holmes, left England in the 1630s to eventually settle in the young Stamford, Fairfield, Connecticut. His great-grandfather, Samuel Holmes Sr, loyal to the king, left Bedford, Westchester, New York, at the end of the American Revolution, to settle at Remsheg, Cumberland, on the Northumberland Strait of Nova Scotia, and later to the community of Westchester. His grandfather, Samuel Holmes Jr, moved hither and yon, starting about 1820, from Westchester to Amherst, Cumberland, to the ocean shores of the north-eastern tip of Cape Breton, then to two communities in New York state. He left his son, Daniel, to be raised by his maternal grandparents, the Holsteads. Daniel Holmes, father of Fenwick, left the community of Amherst in the 1830s for the new area of Petitcodiac, Westmorland, New Brunswick, building his home on what is now an offramp of the Trans Canada highway, halfway between Petitcodiac and River Glade. Two of Fenwick’s sisters, Fanny and Louisa, left for the wilds of Iowa after the Civil War. His brother, William, ran away to Maine. Adventure was in Fenwick’s genes!                                                                                                                                                                  In the 1881 census, Fenwick and Maud lived in the Province of Keewatin – B. No. 3 from Winnipeg River to Western Boundary of District 192 B along C.P.R. How’s that for an address?                                 The Holmes children, who were all born in Petitcodiac, Westmorland County, New Brunswick, received their education from their parents, Daniel and Charlotte (Hoyt) Holmes. The boys helped out on the farm and the mills. They worked at farming, lumbering, or with the railroad. Fenwick started with the railroad, and had several other careers. With the exception of Fenwick, the boys married farmers’ and millers’ daughters.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                       Howard Fenwick, the youngest of twelve children, was born on April 18, 1857, at the homestead in Petitcodiac, according to the 1901 census. He was christened on July 12, 1857;[1] but his name was recorded as Charles Fenwick. This was the only time I saw “Charles” in relation to Fenwick. His parents, Daniel and Charlotte (Hoyt) Holmes, were about forty-four at the time of his birth.                                                           His father, a farmer, yeoman, and miller, made several land transactions, buying and selling, in the Petitcodiac area.                                                                                                                                                                      In his late teens, Fenwick left Petitcodiac for Andover, Victoria County, New Brunswick, where he began his railroad career. He met Miss Maud Marion English, of Woodstock, Carleton County, about seventy-five kilometers south of Andover. He was twenty-one and Maud, twenty-three, when they married at St. Luke’s Church in Woodstock. Rector Rev. T Neales joined Maud and Fenwick in holy matrimony on June 5, 1878.[1]  . . .

CONCLUSION

Howard Fenwick Holmes died in the hospital in Jacksonville, Florida, on April 20, 1917. He was buried in the Evergreen Cemetery, the day after his death; alone.[1] To date, there is no Find a Grave account for him, and I don’t know that he has a headstone.

I bridged some of the gaps of Fenwick and Maude’s lives, especially where and how they lived. What remains between the piers of knowledge are their personal lives, about which I can only wonder. Was Fenwick the charming individual I make him out to be? Would the young, singing Maud of church and temperance meetings have married Fenwick had she foreseen the future? Did they have and lose children? Was Maud knowledgeable about the many documents she signed, or did she just do as she was told? Why did Fenwick say several times in newspaper clippings that he the first mayor of Rat Portage, rather than the first reeve? How did he cope with being a functional alcoholic?                                                                 How do I feel about Uncle Fenwick? I am cautious. I am drawn to his charisma, and I admire him for sticking to his jobs with his disease of alcoholism. Without having the opportunity to chat with Auntie Maud, I feel for her, and I wonder if her life was sometimes difficult. If I knew, that might change my opinion of Uncle Fenwick. Who knows?

 

 

I will probably be away for three weeks or a month, as I am going on a wee journey during the week of my chronicle schedule.                                                        

This ends week seven of our centennial virtual celebration of 1926 – 2026.

 

 

 

 

Thursday, January 29, 2026

Walking Home From the Ordinary

 

Uncle Peg’s Chronicles

January 29, 2026

Walking Home From the Ordinary

 


 

“These were their settlements. And they kept good family records.”[i]

Don’t forget to look for the title which is embedded in the chronicle.

 

 

FAMILY ALBUM

 


I went looking for something for the header this morning, and found this. It’s a review for many of you -  the minutes of the 1926 Holmes Family Reunion, which was held in Petitcodiac. Love that Augusta (Corey) Holmes, wife of James, was called Aunt Gusty.

 

And I Quote:

 

“I read your blog on Facebook and I am thankful you have decided to continue . . .    I don’t always comment but want you to know you make a difference and I hope you can continue.” ~ Cindy.

 

“It is another very excellent Chronicle and I am glad that you are continuing to write them for those of us that prefer to read and not research . . .  I prefer the black info as I like having more information.  Albeit, I did like your comment in the red one regarding the hardware store, noting that it wasn't Fenwick's that burned . . . It is excellent that you are keeping a journal.” ~ Julia.

 

“I like the red rendition of the fires best. The third fire you might have missed the word forth in describing where the fire started or instead of burst, maybe you could use spread? . . . Hope you and yours are well and your Guelph family are coping with snowmeggadon. I can't remember when we last had snow on our stoop . . .” ~ Ann. Thanks again for the edit!

 

1925 to 1928

 

Those are the years that our Holmes ancestors spent renewing relationships that had somehow fallen by the wayside but with organization, letter writing, and challenging travel – by hook or by crook – they managed to come together again. They reacquainted and rediscovered their family ties. And then, one by one, they died, and many of those ties died with them.

2025 to 2028

Do you know how I write this particular part of the chronicle? By hook or by crook. I start writing, and see where it takes me. I revise it a couple of times. Today, I amble (or ramble).

Almost every day, I go for a walk. How far I go, and where I go, depends on the weather or where I am. On Sunday, I park quite a way from church. I keep an umbrella in the car just in case. (Last Sunday, I bundled up like Nanook of the North.) Monday through Friday, I walk to the store and back for the mail, unless the weather is terrible. If it’s half way decent, I throw in a few extra blocks to please my doctor and help my blood pressure.

On Saturday, who knows where I’ll walk?

Although I’m still working on Fenwick and Maud, I’ve been thinking about our immigrant ancestor, Francis Holmes and his family. Did they do a lot of walking? Did they carry stuff on their back from wherever their ship docked, to Stamford? Did they catch a boat across the Long Island Sound? Buy a horse and wagon, and if so, how was the trail? How about getting around Stamford. I picture them doing quite a bit of walking, no matter what their situation. Walk to the meeting house, to their common pasture, to the ordinary, to visit friends, to the waterways.

Francis was walking home from the ordinary (tavern) in the dark when he was assaulted in the face. I sort of sympathize with him when I look at my face right now. I had a wee blue mole removed from my bottom eyelid. The needle caused more bleeding than the procedure, I was told; it left a bruise under my eye. It probably didn’t hurt near as much as Francis’ face did after he was slugged. The worst part was the freezing, and I suppose Francis would have appreciated that right about then.

Now, that was quite an amble and ramble. Maybe it will give you a chuckle, and maybe you’ll be wondering about my sanity. Today, I sport a little scab and hardly a bruise at all.

Here’s the record about Francis’s face: https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/3:1:3Q9M-CS3N-SWR6?view=fullText&keywords=Francis%20Holmes&lang=en&groupId=

And, here’d the link to when Francis was overcome with drink. https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/3:1:3Q9M-CS3N-SWLP?view=fullText&keywords=Francis%20Holmes&lang=en&groupId=

These were the two first entries to show up when I googled our ancestor. They are not limited to Full Text Search, however. Too bad; if someone only did a cursory search, they wouldn’t get a very pretty overview of our Francis. But we know he was a man we can be proud of.

News from Holmes

A Halstead Mention

As I work on the Rat Portage Land Record books, I keep encountering a Rev. William and Mrs. Mary Halstead, and sometimes a Rosa Halstead. I have not taken the time to research them, but if someone has an interest, they could do so. The time frame I am working on is from 1885ish to the mid 1890s. There is another Holmes family as well, but Holmes is a common name compared to Holstead.

FAMILY HISTORY LESSON

I found this while I was revising my article for Generations. It is about Remsheg, where Samuel Holmes Sr, Samuel Holsted, Nathaniel   Hoeg, etc. initially settled in Nova Scotia after the Revolution. It’s nine pages long, downloadable, and includes history, paintings, photos, etc. If you are interested, I suggest you have a look at the link. This is a website of the Wallace and Area Museum of Wallace, Nova Scotia, and is in a file called Community Memories. “The United Empire Loyalists of Remsheg; refugees from the American Revolution:” The Story of the United Empire Loyalists of the Remsheg Grant, 1783.

https://www.communitystories.ca/v1/pm_v2.php?id=story_line&lg=English&fl=0&ex=00000852&sl=10055&pos=1&pf=1

This ends week five of our centennial virtual celebration of 1926 – 2026.

 



[i] The Message. I Chronicles 4:33

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