Thursday, January 15, 2026

It's Not Always About the Ancestors

 

 

Uncle Peg’s Chronicles

January 15, 2026

It’s Not Always About the Ancestors

 

 


“These were their settlements. And they kept good family records.”[i]

Don’t forget to look for the title which is embedded in the chronicle.

 

 

FAMILY ALBUM

 Ask for email in order to see the pictures.

Kristin and Trish Yee, sisters and family of the William Holmes line.

Brady, Trish’s son, children of Brady and Aubrey, Kristin Holmes and Patricia Yee

New Years in Nuremberg

 

And I Quote:

 

“Thank you, Peg, for maintaining our genealogy.” Julia

 

“Thanks again for all you do.” Marvin

 

“So happy to know you have continued ancestry projects.” – Celia

 

“I feel sorry for Maud somehow.” - Jeanni

 

Thank you, as well, to those who sent updates and photos of your families.

 

 

1925 to 1928

 

Those are the years that our Holmes ancestors spent renewing relationships that had somehow fallen by the wayside but with organization, letter writing, and challenging travel – by hook or by crook – they managed to come together again. They reacquainted and rediscovered their family ties. And then, one by one, they died, and many of those ties died with them.

2025 to 2028

I went into a tailspin last week, and spent some time pondering whether or not to continue writing Uncle Peg’s Chronicles. I do enjoy writing them, and I have decided to keep going. I spent very little time with my history lesson this week. My mind couldn’t concentrate too much on Fenwick and Maud. I thought that, early in the new year, I’d share some history.

I started writing newsletters years ago, for my siblings, my cousins, and the Noltes. As I researched other family lines, I found some of you, and I am now in touch with not only the descendants of Daniel and Charlotte – but also descendants of Samuel Jr and Phoebe Holstead and Elizabeth McElmon, Samuel Sr and Elizabeth Fountain, Loyalists who came to Nova Scotia in 1783, and a few others outside the box. As I wrote my book, “A Homestead on the Old Post Road,” I told you family stories and information about Daniel and Charlotte’s descendants, down to my mother’s generation.

My intent has been and is to find family members and/or share our history with you. If you are a fellow genealogist who shares an interest in our family, you have been an awesome help over the years. If you show an aptitude for genealogy, I try to encourage you. If you share your family history with me, I appreciate it. If you just like to know stuff, but not to do the work, I’m pleased. I will always be grateful to those of you who edit for me, share your knowledge and questions with me, etcetera. I think most people have patiently stuck with me, and I thank you.

Genealogists are advised to keep a research journal. My chronicles now serve two purposes: to record my findings, which I do refer to occasionally, and for your family historical knowledge, updates, interest, and keeping in touch.

I always receive one or several replies. I don’t include them all in the quotes, but I am certainly grateful for them. Some of you write frequently, and some surprise me from time to time. Those who send me something for the chronicle encourage me and make the letter more interesting.

Some chronicles are not as interesting as others, and I apologize for that. There will always be people who don’t know who I am talking about. Do know that I talk about our direct and collateral Holmes folks and our family history most of the time. I have focused on Fenwick and Maud for many months, and if you are hoping I’ll be done with them soon, I am working on two things – a revision, and the land records, which will take some time. That work is not easy.

I am going to share with you a few of my interactions with “cousins”. I will give no names or details that I consider to be private. You might see yourself, but know that the details remain just between us. This is why I am not going to quit writing chronicles while I still can. I like to think that I have helped some of you along the way. Sometimes, it is genealogical and/or family historical help, and sometimes I just “chat” and empathize with you. Over the years, I have had some long discussions that have never and will never go into a chronicle. If I shared them, I’d have no integrity whatsoever.

One person gifted me a critique, and has never written to me again, even though I still send the Christmas chronicles. That critique changed “A Homestead on the Old Post Road” dramatically for the better. Even when I receive a critique or a criticism, I eventually appreciate it and learn from it.

One person requested proof of my claim. I opened up a can of worms to a family that I thought must have known the history, but they did not. I sent the links, and never heard from them again. I learned a valuable lesson.

I have listened to stories about a parent who caused many hurts.

I have listened, in emails and sometimes in person, to the heartbreaking loss of loved ones of all ages, and includes death by natural causes, suicides, still births, and other tragedies. You may have read their obituaries that I include in “News from Holmes,” but sometimes there’s more to it than that. I try to be careful with the personal details that I share.

After many hours of searching, I located, if not the actual person (who I can’t say for certain), the family of an unknown ancestor, thanks to DNA. I think I included that in a chronicle. The search is not a secret, but I’ll leave it at that.

I have worked with a few of you on your specific ancestors.

These abstracts of the stories I shared, and the ones I didn’t share, are enough for me to know that I need to keep going. It’s not always about the ancestors.

News from Holmes

Grace March and I had a virtual chat and catch up. The genealogy is up to date. She and Brook are honorary great-grandparents to two little girls, Lily, born in 2024, and Lavender, in 2025. They had a wonderful Christmas and family gathering of ten. With their parents’ permission, I am sharing photos of the little girls, two little cuties. Grace is in the James Hoyt Holmes line.

Some of you know or know of Sandra Thorne. She is a very distant relative, and a genealogist. She has been very helpful to me as a mentor and fellow researcher in my early days in genealogy, and up to about three years ago, we visited once in a while with a couple of other genealogists. Richard died not too long after our last visit. I sent my condolences and the Christmas chronicles, but never heard from her. I was quite puzzled. I recently received an email from her brother-in-law, Geoff, who monitors her email account. I spoke with someone else who knows her, and apparently, she has been ill since about the time of Richard’s death. Photo is of our last visit, in June of 2023.

“I am sorry to tell you that Sandi is now living in a long-term care facility in Quispamsis, due to a rapid decline in her cognitive abilities and a complete inability to function independently. Any effort to have a conversation with her is difficult and becomes pretty much a monologue on the visitor’s behalf. I am sorry to give you such poor news but I am sure that, if she could, Sandi would wish you every joy in 2026.

Geoff”

John, Sandra, Richard, Peg, and Cliff, New Brunswick genealogists.

Celia Anklesaria sent me family updates. She and her husband, Hoshi Anklesaria, of the Charles R Holmes line, have one son, Philip. Philip and his wife, Maika, have been in Okinawa for several years, with the Marine Corps. He is a pilot and flies an Osprey. They will return to the US this summer, to settle in Arizona.

She sent two photos. One is of Philip and Maika. The other is Philip, just after he was recently pinned Major. Congratulations, Philip.

Philip is a grandson of our matriarch, Janet Nolte. They are in the Charles R Holmes line.

FAMILY HISTORY LESSON

For this history lesson, I ask for your help. It is not mandatory at all, but I’d like you to read a section of my article about fires in Rat Portage. The portions in black are three newspaper clippings that I have transcribed. The portion in red is my rendition, which is much shorter. Hopefully, this section is new to you; if not, I apologize.

Please tell me which one you would prefer to read in an article – the black or the red. It will be one or t’other. The three articles will of course be footnoted. Actual clippings are in italics.

Fires in Rat Portage

As in many locations, fires destroyed portions of early towns. Although I do not see a record of a fire that destroyed Fenwick and Maud’s home or business, they were probably affected by loss of clientele. Many neighbours and clients lost their homes and livelihoods.  For more information on fires in Rat Portage and Kenora, Ontario, see an article in the Facebook group, “Kenora Through the Years,” March 19, 2022, by Bob Stewart. https://www.facebook.com/groups/2001136476646115/posts/4942730289153371/

A fire occurred in November, 1883. A newspaper clipping states: Work of the Flames: Buildings Blown Up with Gunpower to Check the Fire. Winnipeg, Man., Nov. 28. A large portion of the town of Rat Portage, 100 miles east of here [Winnipeg], was burned yesterday. Ten business houses were destroyed. Buildings were blown up with gunpowder to check the flames. The loss has not yet been ascertained.[1]

The November fire was barely extinguished when another fire on December 16 added to the devastation. This report includes the name of H. T. (sic) Holmes.

OR

A fire occurred on November 28, 1883, burning a large portion of Rat Portage. Ten businesses were destroyed by fire or gunpowder, which they used to blow them up to check the flames. Footnote.

IN ASHES,

Rat Portage Visited by a Most Disasterous Fire

Loss Estimated at $100, 000 – An Appeal for Help,

WINNIPEG, Dec, 17. – The most disastrous conflagration that has yet visited Rat Portage  occurred there last night. About 11:30 o’clock a fire broke out in the general store of Baker & Co. The flames were fought heroically, but the wind from the south very quickly blew them into the adjoining building, and althought exery exertion was made by the people they saw that the side of the street up as far as Second street must go. The following are the buildings burned, commencing on the south end of the west side of Main street: Chadwick & McLellan, hardware; registry office occupied by James Weldman, immediately overhead; James Green, fruit store; Baker and Co., general store; Nicholson, tailor; McKinnon Bros., general store; Myers & Lillie, Woodbine Hotel; Kobold Bros., Butchers; McDougall, shoes; Thompson & Palmer, butchers; Masonic Hall building; McCarthy’s new building on the corner of Second street, and J. K. Brydon’s law office in the Masonic Hall building upstairs. The total loss will foot up to $100,000 or more. The goods, furniture, and fixings in the different shops which were got out have been terribly damaged. The flames subsided about 3 o’clock this mornig. This is the fourth extensive conflagration that has occurred in this town within as many months. The gap made by the fire last night extends nearly 200 yards, being the portion of the town most thickly and compactly built upon and occupied by the principal business establishments. Probably 75 people will be rendered homeless. It is rarely, indeed, that a community of 600 or 700 is visited with such a calamity, and this is surely one in which an appeal for assistance to our sister towns and villages in both Ontario and Manitoba can  with justice be made. The sufferers herre have nothing to fall back upon – no resources whatever further than the business they were each each depending upon. With the fire they have lost everything. The origin of the fire is attributed to the explosion of a lamp in the baker’s shop.

To the people of the Dominion:

Rat Portage has again been visited by fire. Owing to the dispute between Ontario and Manitoba as to the Provincial rights, during the last few months business men have materially suffered. Now some are entirely ruined, others seriously involved.What the public has done for St. John and other fire-visited places we ask for our town. The people are hardworking and deserving. We want fire protection, but owing to losses incurred we are not able to purchase fire engines and other appliances. We ask you and the Mayors of Montreal, Quebec, Kingston, Belleville, Hamilton, St. Catherines, Brantford, London, Ottawa, Sarnia, Guelph, St. John, Halifax and any others to help us.

                                                                                WALTER OLIVER, Mayor,

                                                                                H. T. Holmes.[2]   

OR

Eighteen days later, on December 16th, the explosion of a lamp in Baker and Company’s General Store started the most disasterous conflagration in Rat Portage’s history. The wind from the south fueled the flames, and the community of approximately seven hundred people lost the most occupied portion of the town.

Gone were one hardware store (not Fenwick’s), a fruit store, two general stores, two butcher shops, a shoe store, a tailor’s shop, the registry office, a hotel, a law office, the masonic hall, and one new building. The estimate of the damage was at least $100,000. The fire left about seventy-five people homeless.

In an appeal for help to various Canadian cities, they mentioned that they “want fire protection, but owing to losses incurred, are not able to purchase fire engines and other appliances.” This appeal went to the mayors of Montreal, Quebec, Kingston, Belleville, Hamilton, St. Catherines, Brantford, London, Ottawa, Sarnia, Guelph, St. John (sic), Halifax and any others.” It was signed by the mayor of Rat Portage, Walter Oliver, and H. T. (sic) Holmes.

Tragedy struck again in 1898, when fire destroyed much of Rat Portage. Did this directly affect Fenwick and Maud?

Rat Portage in Flames. RAT PORTAGE, Ont., May 20. - [1898]. Shortly after the dispersion of the audience which attended the Farley Opera Company’s performance of “She” in the Hilliard Opera House last night, the building was discovered to be in flames, the fire bursting forth from the theatre auditorium. Those having rooms in the front of the building barely escaped with their lives, losing all their effects. The opera company lost all their baggage and costumes. The fire extended to the building occupied by D. H. Currie, insurance and town tax collector; also to Gardiner & Co.’s and Geo. Dewey’s warehouses, Rogers & Ray’s dry goods and other stores, completely destroying some of the best blocks in town, including Dewey’s handsome brick buildings. The Rat Portage High School was also completely destroyed. The loss will be very heavy. It is reported that one of the boarders in the opera house building has been buried in the ruins.[3]

OR

In 1898, following a performance of the Farley Opera Company, “She,” in the Hilliard Opera House, the building went up in flames which burst from the auditorium. Most people in the building escaped the flames, but lost all their belongings. The opera company lost all their baggage and costumes. The fire destroyed several other buildings as well, including the High School. Some of the boarders who lived in the opera house lost their lives.

 

This ends week three of our centennial virtual celebration of 1926 – 2026.

 

 

 

 



[1] Daily True American, Trenton, N. J. November 29, 1883. No page number. Accessed October 15, 2025.

https://books.google.ca/books?id=rDtFAAAAIBAJ&pg=PA2&dq=Rat+Portage+Hardware+Store&article_id=3890,4768426&hl=en&sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwi5_Meb9KOQAxWYk4kEHe8pBIgQ6AF6BAgNEAM#v=onepage&q=Rat%20Portage%20Hardware%20Store&f=false

[2]The London Advertiser, December, 1883. No page number. Accessed October 15, 2025. https://books.google.ca/books?id=_WI7AAAAIBAJ&pg=PA1&dq=Rat+Portage+Hardware+Store&article_id=2641,27338440&hl=en&sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwj0wJT2-qOQAxUfkIkEHXH-Lu44FBDoAXoECAgQAw#v=onepage&q=Rat%20Portage%20Hardware%20Store&f=false

[3] Queens County Gazette 2, no. 17, June 01, 1898: [6]. New Brunswick Historical Newspapers Project, accessed October 14, 2025. https://newspapers.lib.unb.ca/serials/127/issues/23216/pages/172923.



[i] The Message. I Chronicles 4:33

No comments:

Post a Comment

It's Not Always About the Ancestors

    Uncle Peg’s Chronicles January 15, 2026 “ It’s Not Always About the Ancestors ” ...