Thursday, September 12, 2024

By the Light of the Moon

 

September 5, 2024

“By the Light of the Moon

 


 

 

“These were their settlements. And they kept good family records.”

 

Don’t forget to look for the title which is embedded in the chronicle.

 

 

FAMILY ALBUM

 



 

GRATITUDE

 

I forgot to add this in the chronicle of two weeks ago – just the title. Oops!

 

Had emails from Phyllis D, Janet N, Jolynda H, Byron H, Marvin D, and Julia N. Thanks, all. Byron gave me a little lesson, which I will share with you because I know you need to know this just as much as I did. Always look forward to opening an email from Byron Holmes or Trace Holmes, as they know the most interesting stuff.

 

Byron: “Peg, The deed you included in the Chronicle reminded me of many old deeds I have seen here in the states. When doing deed research for engineering purposes, deeds often stated measurements in links, rods, and chains. A link was based on the link of a chain and is 7.92 inches (20.1168 cm), rods are 16.5 feet, or 25 links, and a chain is 66 feet, or 100 links. Then we would have to convert to hundredths of a foot for modern survey purposes. It could be a pain, but was often necessary in order to prove current ownership. Byron.”

 

Peg: “Do you know if it was a British unit of measurement? I see it often in old deeds here as well. I see them in grants also. Around Corn Hill, close to where my grandparents lived, the original grants were dated in the mid to late 1860s. After the arrival of the Loyalists, but still a lot of Loyalist influence.”

Byron: “It is an English unit of measurement and was required for use when laying out townships in the U.S., and I assume also in Canada. It was used for all land layouts until the imperial system was developed in the 1880s.”

SUMMER BREAK

 

Well, summer break is over. I am so busy that I have decided to write my Chronicles bi-weekly. Managing the NBGS group keeps me occupied, but I find it rewarding. I’ve also been frantically completing and revising my article about Daniel for “Generations.” Have it knocked down from 70+ pages to 25. Hurts to cut that much. I have a deadline: the first of November. I sent a copy off to the editor to see if he likes it. Haven’t heard back yet – hope that’s a good sign. He’s a man of few words. I will include an excerpt in the History Lesson.

 

MY GENEALOGY GOALS

 

  • Chronicle several times, and publish on Thursday morning.
  • Keep writing my next article for Generations, which is about the will of Daniel Holmes.
  • Spend a bit of time on Moore family research: “Three Peas in a Moore Pod.”
  • In the evening, after chores are done, edit the Daniel and Charlotte family genealogy.
  • Index old newspapers for NBGS.
  • Manage the NBGS Social Media Facebook page.

 

1924 to 1928

 

Those are the years that our great or great-great grandparents spent renewing relationships that had somehow fallen by the wayside but with organization, letter writing, and challenging travel – by hook or by crook – they managed to come together again. They reacquainted and rediscovered their family ties. And then, one by one, they died, and many of those ties died with them.

2024 to 2028

                I‘ve had to think hard for inspiration for this paragraph, this week. Perhaps it’s because I’m not researching and writing, but working on facts and figures in the form of endnotes. That involves going back and forth on my messy manuscript, making sure the link is appropriate to the writing, making sure the endnote is standard, and arguing with Ms. WORD (and arguing with a default is a lost cause, unless you can determine the cause). I finally won, this battle, anyway. And, who reads endnotes or footnotes anyway, besides me. (They are valuable to researchers and obligatory to their sources.)                                                                   One lesson I think I finally have down pat is to keep track of my sources. This came as I re-researched many items, due to the fact that I couldn’t remember where I found them. My mother told me many times, “write it down. You will forget.” She was right, you know. Her memoirs amaze me. I can’t remember half of the details of my younger life like she did. I forget lots of things my daughters did.                          Back in September, 1924, the Holmes reunion attendees had returned to their homes. Plans were underway for another gathering the next summer, but some of them couldn’t travel that far every year. I suppose the memories and a few photographs kept them smiling, but they were back to their daily routines. Maybe only a few of them kept the enthusiasm alive by writing letters. That’s just the way life is. The good times, the bad times, the routines, soon become endnotes. The enthusiasms and sorrows meld into new events, and the past becomes less important and intense.                                                                               After three generations, who remembers?                                                            Mostly, the family historians. We don’t actually remember the old stuff; we research and recover.  As I review my endnotes, Kingsley Allison Ballantyne’s name pops up a couple of times: the anonymous compiler of the two genealogies. How do I know the compiler was Kingsley? He did not take any credit in what I call the “Little Black Book” or the genealogy compilation. But, he was on the executive of the Holmes Family Association as the family historian. Also, his focus in the “Little Black Book” was both the Holmes and Hall families. I think it’s a valid assumption. There were some flaws in the genealogy, but hey, that is the job of current genealogists to figure out.                                                                                                                                             Kingsley was the son of Robert and Louisa (Holmes) Ballantyne, and the grandson of Daniel and Charlotte (Hoyt) Holmes. He married Laura Hall, and they had one daughter, Ruth. Ruth taught some of you in elementary school. She did not marry or have children, so that line died out. As I endnote his contribution to our family history, I say a big thank you to him.




CONDOLENCES

This notice is late as it went to my other email address which I do not check often enough.

Eleanor (Holmes) Wilson shared with me that her mother passed peacefully away on July 14th. Mary Sultzer Holmes was almost ninety-seven. She was the widow of Julian Holmes of the Peter K Holmes line, and had two daughters, Eleanor and Janet. Eleanor shared this photograph, which I love because there are people from both the Peter and the Charles R lines.



Back row left to right: Tom and Karen Sultzer, Mom's nephew and his wife, my husband Kennon, me, Phillip Anklesaria, Jeff and his girlfriend my niece Kristy Griffith.

Middle row: Hoshi Anklesaria, Mary Holmes, Celia Anklesaria

Bottom row: Janet Griffith, Victoria Griffith, Gerry Griffith with dog Rudy

 

WHERE IN THE WORLD ARE . . .

I know some of you are travelling, but didn’t do my usual thing of copying and pasting in the upcoming chronicle. Marvin Davis, you and Kyong must be back from your week-long Alaskan cruise. Do you have a photo of yourselves in that magnificent part of the world that I could share, Marvin? Kirk and Susan Stephens went to Easter Island. She says, “Easter Island is everything I imagined and so much more. It is considered the most remote inhabited Island in the world and is unique in so many ways. What a pleasure to be here!” I put their photo in the family album. Marvin is of the Francis (Holmes) Ballantyne line, and Susan from the Louisa (Holmes) Ballantyne line.       




                                               
                                   Amy and her mother, Mary Davis, are not too far from home but Mary is having a special occasion, celebrating her 60th graduation class reunion. Her she is, sitting beside (I assume) two school chums. From the photos, it appears that many Maine lobstas made the sacrifice. Good times. Amy and Mary are of the William Holmes line.


MUM’S MEMOIRS

 

Another question about cars etc. Don’t remember when Dad had his first car. I know he had one when Mum was in hospital in 1933. Some of the relatives in U.S. (I imagine Mac) brought a car & left it for him. It was small one seat and a trunk. He brought some folks down to see Mum – Bryce & I were in the trunk. On the home the lights went out & Dad drove home by the light of the moon – No traffic then!                     He also had a motor cycle. Think it had belonged to Eddie Underhill. One day he was taking Whitfield Bishop to Elgin on the back or the motorcycle & he was talking to him over his shoulder but Whit didn’t reply. Dad looked behind but no Whit. He had fallen off – Dad went back picked him up & they went on their way.                                                                                                                                                                                                             Dad didn’t have a new vehicle until after war – Bob was living at home. One day he was going to town & had Dan Blakeney with him – he smoked a pipe. He took his match and scraped it across the dash, made a bad scratch! Dad wasn’t happy. He Dan was a man who swore all the time. Bobby was just small. One day he was down to Dan’s (neighbor) and he asked him why he said “Bad Words” all the time. Dan spoke to Dad about it. Guess he thought Dad should correct him but Dad just said Bob was right in asking.

 

 

FAMILY HISTORY LESSON

 

I’m not sure if I included this excerpt of my Daniel Holmes article earlier, but if I did, it has certainly changed with the revision. It is endnoted in the article.

STORY 3 - Abandoned

“They abandoned Daniel as a baby.” I pictured the proverbial crying infant, note pinned to his blanket, in a basket on a doorstep. It wasn’t quite like that. Daniel’s mother, Phoebe Holsted Holmes, was dead, and his father, Samuel Holmes, had married Betty, daughter of Peter McElman of Cumberland County, Nova Scotia. Samuel and Betty eventually set out for New York state, leaving Daniel and his sibling with his maternal grandparents, Samuel and Elizabeth Holsted, in Amherst, Nova Scotia. His sibling died. Daniel spent his childhood in his grandparents’ home, receiving an education along with his uncles and aunts, some of whom were not much older than him. When he was eleven, his widowed and recently remarried grandfather died. Although Daniel’s Holsted grandfather died intestate, the estate left some financial provision for him in the form of land. In his late teens, he went to New Brunswick, operated a sawmill along the Holmes Brook, and lived in a home on the Post Road in Petitcodiac for the rest of his days. His wife, Charlotte Hoyt of Portage Vale, shared their home and filled it with children. ~ Peggy Vasseur

“To Alfred E. Oulton, Esquire, Judge of Probate for the County of Westmorland and Province of New Brunswick

                The petition of Charles R. Holmes of Salisbury, in the said County, Farmer, and of Abner Jones of the same place, Farmer, Humbly Sheweth                                                                                                                                              That Daniel Holmes late of the Parish of Salisbury in the County aforesaid, farmer, departed this life on or about the twenty third day of March last past at the Parish of Salisbury aforesaid, having first duly made and executed his last will and testament in true form of law, bearing date the Eighth day of February in the year of our Lord one thousand eight hundred and Eighty three, and thereby appointed your petitioners the Executors thereof. That immediately before the time of his death the said Daniel Holmes was an inhabitant of the said County of Westmorland and that he died seized or otherwise entitled unto personal estate to the value of three thousand dollars.                                                                                                          Your petitioners therefore humbly pray that they may be admitted to prove the said last will and testament, and that letters testamentary may be granted thereof to them in due form of law, and so, in duty bound will ever pray.”

Family lore generally has a ring of truth to it, but it does need verification. I felt that the claim that Daniel was abandoned as a child was important enough to check into the facts behind the lore.          According to the 1830 and 1840 censuses of Brownville, Jefferson County, New York, Samuel Holmes lived there with his wife and six children. Only the main householder’s name was given on these records. By 1850[i], a Samuel of the same age was in Cattaraugus County, New York, with a different wife and another child, born c. 1844. This did not confirm my theory. To make sure this Samuel Holmes was my ancestor, I had to compare with other records and documents.                                                                                    I needed the two old letters written by Samuel Jr. and Betty (McElman) Holmes to her parents, Peter and Margaret McElman, c. 1838. Fenwicke Holmes obtained transcribed copies of these letters, and without them, I would be hard pressed to prove that Samuel went to New York. They verify that Samuel and Betty lived in Brownville. The top of the first letter is missing, and some words were illegible to the transcriber.

“To Mr. Peter McElman

Town of Amh – at County of Cumberland

Province of Nova Scotia

. . . I will . . .  give you . . . history of our Situation we Live in the town of Brownville the County of Jefferson and State of New York we have 6 children their names is James & Ann & Benjamin McElman & Betsy Marinda & Margret Mariah & Lyman White we are in tolerable good Circumstances . . . “                         The second letter is addressed to Peter and Margaret McElman. “ . . .  We want you after reading this Letter to send it to my Mother and all the Brothers & Sisters on both sides as it would be difficult to write Separate Letters to Each we want you to write and let us know how all do if living and where if any have removed. We do want to know how my two children do and where they live if living . . .”                                                Samuel Holmes and Betty Holmes”                                                                                          

The six children, half-siblings of Daniel and his unknown sibling, are listed in the order that matches the ages of the children on the Brownville census of 1840. The letters imply that Daniel’s father and step-mother never took the time before Daniel was grown to inquire into their well-being. Samuel left them with his in-laws, but my early take on it that they were left on a stoop was incorrect.                                        In spite of the circumstances, it appears to me that Daniel had a good upbringing. In a land petition by Samuel Holsted dated 16th March, 1815, Charles Baker, Justice of the Peace, gave a character reference for Samuel Holstead. “I do certify that the above Petitioner is a neighbour of mine that I have been long acquainted with him that he is an industrious peacable man . . .”                                                                               Another lengthy petition by Samuel Holsted followed, and I only include excerpts that pertain to Holsted’s life following the war and Daniel’s situation in his early life. “. . .  Your Petitioner is one of the American Loyalists who came to this Province at the close of the Revolutionary War in America, and since then has resided herein . . . has a Wife and thirteen children. Had to encounter on settleing many hardships and difficulties not known or experienced at this day – but by the blessings of Providence has made himself and family by hard Labour and industry comfortable . . . one Samuel Holmes of the Township of Amherst having married a daughter of your Petitioner, and not having land suitable to settle on, it was agreed that the said Samuel Holmes the Son in Law of your Petitioner should lay out the said quantity of Land specified in said order at Bay Vert, which was accordingly done . . . The daughter of your Petitioner and the wife of the said Holmes, having deceased leaving two children, and Holmes the Father moving out of the Country leaving no support for his Children; at your Petitioners charge have they been supported, and lately one of the children departed this life, and the other is with your Petitioner to be brought up and supported, without any means of the said Holmes left for that purpose . . .                                                                        Personally appeared Samuel Holsted the within Petitioner and made oath to the foregoing facts.                                                                                                          before                                                                                                                                                                                                   Charles Baker J.P.                                                                                                                                                                              11th Feby 1820                                                                                  We the undersigned Magistrates for the County of Cumberland Certify that we are well acquainted with Mr. Samuel Holsted the within Petitioner, and know him to be an Industrious and respectable Farmer of said county; and we firmly believe the facts stated in the forgoing Petition to be true . . .                                                                                                                           Charles Baker J. P.                                                                                                                                                                             Wm. White J. P.                                                                                                                                                                                 Henry Purdy J. P.”

I located Samuel Holsted’s record of his marriage to Elizabeth Wright on March 18, 1824, at the Anglican Church Records, located in the New Brunswick Genealogical Society website.       Samuel died intestate c. 1824. His probate record was dated March of 1827. Land in Amherst, Nova Scotia, was left to Daniel and his uncles and aunts by the estate of Samuel Holsted. A page of probate devoted to the financial guardianship conditions for Daniel Holmes and his minor uncles states that Daniel was financially cared for.   “ . . .  the care of them is committed to William Baker Esquire above named.”                                               Charles, Samuel, Hannah and Matthew Holsted, Daniel’s uncles and aunts, settled in New Brunswick, as did Daniel. Daniel sold the land that he had inherited from Grandfather Holsted to William Humphrey of Maccan, Nova Scotia on August 23, 1834. The indenture mentions that he was intitled to the tracts of land as one of the heirs of “his late honoured Grand Father – Samuel Holsted deceased.”                              The probate excerpt verifies that Daniel made his home in the parish of Salisbury, Westmorland County.

 

 

This ends week thirty-eight of our centennial virtual celebration.

 

 



[i] Ancestry. “1850 U.S. Federal Census of Cattaraugus County, New York.” Accessed September.

https://www.ancestry.ca/imageviewer/collections/8054/images/4196768-00312?pId=11338382

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