Thursday, May 9, 2024

My Little Girl Self

 

Uncle Peg’s Chronicles

May 9, 2024

 


 

“These were their settlements. And they kept good family records.”[1]

 

Don’t forget to look for the title which is embedded in the chronicle.

 

“My Little Girl Self

 

FAMILY ALBUM

 

 


Portion of Lot 6, aka The Farm. The house in the background is the little house where Charles R and Phoebe Holmes (on the right) lived after WWI. Not an ounce of insulation in that place. Not a lick of paint on it in my memory. On the left is their son, Floyd Holmes, and in the centre, his brother, Cecil Holmes.

The children in front are Cassie Colpitts, Bryce Holmes, and Phoebe Colpitts, grandchildren of Charles and Phoebe. Photo c. 1922.

 

HAPPY MOTHER’S DAY

 

to all Mothers and Grandmothers, special aunties and mother figures.

Happy Memories of our mothers and grandmothers.

Forget not Mother Holmes, wife of Francis, though she bears no name,

our foremother and mother figure to us all.

 

 


GRATITUDE

 

Thanks, Grace, for sending your picture of yourselves in London. You can see the photo, below.

 

MY GENEALOGY GOALS

 

  • Chronicle several times, and publish on Thursday morning.
  • Keep writing my next article for Generations, which is about the will of Daniel Holmes.
  • Spend a bit of time on Moore family research: “Three Peas in a Moore Pod.”
  • In the evening, after chores are done, edit the Charles and Phoebe family genealogy.
  • Index old newspapers for NBGS. On hold.
  • Index Riverbank Visitors for NBGS. Put old newspapers on hold while I do this.

 

I spent a bit of time preparing for the Annual General Meeting, booked my actual presence for a meeting on May 25th at Kings Landing, and talked to our upcoming speaker for this Saturday about LIDAR. I told him I was excited about it. I also did a wee bit of genealogy stuff.

                Menu for our Kings Landing luncheon – very Kings Landy – brown bread, salad, turkey pot pie, gingerbread, and tea/coffee.

 

1924 to 1928

 

Those are the years that our great or great-great grandparents spent renewing relationships that had somehow fallen by the wayside but with organization, letter writing, and challenging travel – by hook or by crook – they managed to come together again. They reacquainted and rediscovered their family ties. And then, one by one, they died, and many of those ties died with them.

2024 to 2028

This week, I give you an excerpt from Mum’s memoirs. It features the children of Charles R and Phoebe Holmes and their visits to the farm. I wrote it mostly as is, but added a bit of punctuation, paragraph breaks, and details in [   ].                                                                                                                                                 It will be good, for those who are interested, when I get the descendant charts ready to send you. Still a WIP, but I’m getting there. If you’ve been following along, you know that Daniel did once own the land. I highlighted the names of the children as they first appear. Floyd lived on the farm, and Cecil and Ethel nearby. She didn’t mention George, but I know George did visit. He brought seeds for a different kind of grain, I recall Mum saying.                                                                                                                                                             Birth order of the children of Charles R and Phoebe Holmes: George, Ella, Daniel (Dan), Emmanella (Emma), Bertha, Arletta (Letty), Ethel, Cecil, and Floyd. Emma married Guy, son of William N Holmes.

The farm, left to Dad & U. Cecil by grandfather Holmes – from Daniel. There was a lumber mill below the bridge (Daniel must have owned some of that land at one time). There was also a mill down near the brook near the MacKenzie & Holmes line. I remember what they called a sluice but I don’t know what kind of a mill it was (Wonder if Burton MacKenzie would know)!!  Dad paid U Cecil for his half of the farm when he willed the property to Nan & I.                                                                                                                              Since it was the homestead the Holmes relatives (sic) quite often. Aunt Bertha came yearly while her parents were living. Sometimes she brought her adopted son Kegwin and [daughter] Alta Maxfield. I know one year she brought U. Buell’s first wife parents. Uncle Dan & Aunt Mae came some. One time she scolded Jim pretty badly, he was counting the plates on the table & touched them as he counted. He wasn’t very old. Think Mum had quite a time. Aunt Mae was good in some ways, always brought Mum a dress & shoes, not new but new to Mum. I only remember Aunt Ella & U. Carl being there once. He was a very quiet man. He was there one year the Sunday School picnic was at home. There was always ice-cream (an unheard of treat) 5 cents a cone & he just stood and paid for ice cream for the kids. That’s all I remember of Him. Aunt Emma & Lawrence her son came. Think he was just there once that I remember her twice – Picking blue berries cleaning out an oil can to take molasses back in. They had a car with a running board on it & a rack fastened to the running board for their luggage. Aunt Letty U. Jim Cecil & Ray were there quite a lot. They just lived in Petitcodiac. I remember the day she died. Mac & Lil were home and he drove her to the hospital in Moncton. They were talking about how fast he drove. Of course Lil came every summer & stayed all summer. Bob’s health wasn’t the best so had to be in the country. We kids sure enjoyed having them & Lil helped so much. Mac came some but didn’t stay long. Poor Mum she enjoyed having them but she must have gotten so tired. They came one Christmas time brought ornaments gifts food. Wonderful! Grebots – something like doughnuts but not as good. Sometimes Lil brought Ruth and Phyllis but they would go back if someone else came from Boston. Eddie & Billy came sometime too. One thing I remember Bob [Minella] & Jim [Holmes] playing was Amos & Andy. They would be in the inside porch. One was Amos, the other Andy. We’d watch them through a hole in the wall. They would say Brother Andy Brother Andy What time is it – then Amos would say Brother Amos Brother Amos it is time to go to bed. It would go on for ages. To have our baths we’d take soap & face cloths and go to the brook. Our necks and faces had to be checked when we got home!                                                                                                                   Lil would take us to Moncton & we’d eat in a restaurant. Had to make 2 trips. I don’t know what else we did. Sometimes she would take Barbara & Fran. She was good to Aunt Nan [Annie ‘Nan’ Colpitts Blakney, sister of Minnie Colpitts Holmes] They let us pick blueberries and sell them to buy glasses for her.

 

WHERE IN THE WORLD ARE . . .

I snatched this one. This is Benjamin Burden, son of Keith and Alisha Burden, of the Carrie Steeves line. I know Benjamin is traveling with a friend, and this schnitzel was eaten in Berlin.





Grace and Brook March are in London, after a Viking longboat cruise on the Danube, a quick stop in Munich, Budapest, Prague and last stop, London, for three weeks in all. Here they are at the Epping Ongar Railroad, a steam heritage railroad near London.  This week they took day trips: gorgeous Warwick Castle in Warwick, the city of Oxford to visit their city sites and also some of the filming locations of our favorite British mysteries on TV, to Portobello Road to enjoy the stalls of the vast array of vendors, and tomorrow we are going back to Highclere Castle where we were a few years ago, where the Downton Abbey series was filmed.                                                                                                                                                                        Photo provided by Grace, who is in the James H Holmes line. You may have met them in New Brunswick in 2014, and/or in Maine in 2016.

 

 

TENTATIVE EXCERPT FROM MY DANIEL ARTICLE

 

From the Appendix

 

The why remains my little secret for now. The people mentioned are not family members.

 

ENTRIES FROM NEWSPAPERS

 

Ask for an email if you wish to see the newspaper entries.

 

 

FAMILY HISTORY LESSON

 

                On Monday evening, Bill and I watched the last episode of “The Curse of Oak Island” for the season. At the conclusion, Rick Lagina usually makes a farewell till we meet again speech and ends up teary. His speech was basically about the little boy inside him. Did he, he wondered, still have that little boy in there? That little boy, with lots of good family memories, was entranced with the Readers Digest article about Oak Island he read decades ago, and eventually became determined to find the treasurer. As a man, he convinced his brother, Marty, to join him in his quest to find the buried treasure on Oak Island. Marty isn’t quite so emotional, and he is interested in digging and finding the treasurer and moving on. Rick has become passionate at finding out the history of the island and the who, what, when, where, why, and how the treasure got there in the first place, even if they never find it.                                    Is the little girl that was me still there, I wonder? I didn’t really have a passion for genealogy and family history until shortly before Dad died in 2005. But, there were things along my way that inspired me, and my Mum’s stories stayed with me, albeit skewed from time to time. I still remember the details of the day I found Uncle Billy’s violin. It took me years, but I found the violin’s story. I wrote about it, and then I found out more about Uncle Billy and Aunt Maggie. Like Rick, I’m interested in the w’s. I want to know. The treasures I seek are not often objects, although I do have some objects. They are the lives of some of my forebears. I’ll never find out about all of them ; there are too many. I take it way too seriously sometimes. I need an occasional aha moment to bring out that little girl and get a bit sentimental in my old age. The details of the past are important, as is the spelling, punctuation, and sentence structure, but the stories bring the facts to life.                                                                                                   A few items I found this past week to make my little girl inside me happy that I found them, but overcome with some of my discoveries – a bit too big for my little girl self. These people are all in the Hattie Holmes Jones line.

 

Abner Jones Newcomb

“BIRTH

26 Nov 1910, Stoneham, Middlesex County, Massachusetts, USA

DEATH

20 Nov 1944 (aged 33), Stoneham, Middlesex County, Massachusetts, USA

BURIAL

Lindenwood Cemetery, Stoneham, Middlesex County, Massachusetts,

     Of Stoneham, MA, aged 34 years. Worked as a local builder.

     Death due to accidental carbon monoxide poisoning.

     Survived by wife and 5 children (Mildred, Bernice, Edward, Evelyn and Beverly).

     [Source: The Boston Globe, 21 Nov 1944, Tue · Page 8]”

 

Obituary

     “MATTOON, IL – Richard Ernest “Dick” Rogers, 95, of Charleston, Illinois passed away peacefully Wednesday, March 2, 2022, at the Odd Fellow-Rebekah Home in Mattoon, Illinois. A memorial service will be held at 2:00 PM, Thursday, March 24, 2022 at Adams Funeral Chapel. Visitation will be from 1:30 PM until service time. Burial will be at a later date.

     Dick was born October 14, 1926, in Reading, Massachusetts, the son of Harold and Hattie (Newcomb) Rogers. He married Phyllis Pletcher on December 25, 1956, and she preceded him in death on June 16, 2008. Richard is survived by his three children, Charles “Chuck” (Betsy) Rogers of Bellevue, NE, Ethan (Natalie) Rogers of Alexandria, VA, and Lucinda “Cindy” (Tony) Williams of Shelbyville, TN; five grandchildren, Alexander “Alex” (Haley) Rogers of Bellevue, NE, Jordan “Jordy” Rogers of Bellevue, NE, Justine (Ronnie Yar) Gustafson of Oak Lawn, IL, Micheal (April) Williams of Shelbyville, TN, and Julie Williams of Shelbyville, TN; thirteen great-grandchildren; one great-great-grandchild and another due any day.  He is also survived by dear friends, Duke and Linda Bagger, Connie Buchenroth, Lillian Greathouse, and Roger Whitlow. Besides his wife and parents, Dick was preceded in death by one granddaughter, Erika Williams; two brothers, Harold Rogers, and Charles “Charlie” Rogers; and two sisters, Marilyn Simpson and Jean Read.

     After his high school graduation from Reading High School in Reading, MA, Dick served his country in the Army Air Corps as a cryptographic technician sergeant with the 145th Air Communications Service Squadron, located in Hawaii.  He attained his BA from Carleton College in Northfield, MN in June of 1950, a MA in theater from UCLA in 1953, a MA in English from San Diego State College, in 1961; and his doctorate in English from Indiana University in 1969. Dick taught at Temple University, the Wilkes-Barre Center at University of Pennsylvania, San Diego State College, and retired from Eastern Illinois University’s English department in 1993 after 24 years of teaching at EIU.

     Academic achievements were not Dick’s only accomplishments. While in California, he served as Cubmaster for the Cub Scouts Pack #354 in Casa de Oro. He was a member of Charleston’s Elks Lodge #623, even serving as past president. He was appointed District Deputy (East Central Illinois district) to the National President of BPO Elks USA, and was a Charleston VFW member, and a member of the local American Legion post in Mattoon. In Charleston he attended the Unitarian Universalist Fellowship of Eastern Illinois and also served as a past chairman.

     Dick enjoyed all things theater: acting, directing, set design, and setup. In fact, he met his wife Phyllis at the Hedgerow Theater in Rose Valley, PA. In Charleston he was active in both the Charleston Community Theater and the Charleston Alley Theater.”

 

    

 

 

A rite of spring: I am picking fiddleheads.

Fiddleheads and rhubarb are my spring tonic.

 

A posy of wildflowers, in memory of my Grams, Alice and Minnie, my Mum, Marg,

 

and for Julie, who gave me Winston and Eleanor.

 


 

 

This ends week nineteen of our centennial virtual celebration.

 

 

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