Thursday, July 6, 2023

Getting to Know Myself Through My Ancestors

 

Uncle Peg’s Chronicles

July 6, 2023

Getting to Know Myself Through My Ancestors

This week, I lost something valuable. I’m not sure if I will be able to retrieve it. I tried to update my Family Tree Maker and in so doing, lost it. I spent hours on Friday on a chat line with the company, to no avail. The man who I chatted with was going to refer it to his higher ups. I await.

This is what I use to create charts and books. Liz, hang on tight to your booklets as, for the time being, they are gone.

This is the program I intend to use to make our gigantic family tree descendant chart.

It may be necessary to take my computer to the doctor to see if he can fix my problem.

Thursday update - I called my computer doctor. He told me what to do but I’m afraid to do it. Julie will help me when she comes home.

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This photo made me smile this week. Meet Gracie Neel, better known to me as Squid! Gracie is the daughter of Christopher Neel and the granddaughter of Laura Watson. You may not have “met” Chris and Laura personally. I “met” them a few years back, when Chris and I connected, probably on ancestry but I’m not sure.


 

We don’t share DNA but we do share a common interest in the Steeves line, as Chris’s great-grandmother and Laura’s grandmother, Alma Robidoux, married Fenwick Howard Steeves, son of Alf and Carrie Steeves. I went back to our messenger thread and reread it. Here’s a quote from Chris:

 

“I never understood why people enjoyed genealogy until now. I feel that I’m getting to know myself through my ancestors.”

 

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The years roll by quickly. Once again, it’s the birthday of Daniel Holmes: on July 9th he is 210 years old. Many of us in this group are here thanks to him. To me, he is my great – great grandfather; to some he may be great-great-great. Some call him Uncle. Some, in the past, called him “Old Dan.”


 

We aren’t sure if he was born in 1813 or 1814, but I think it was 1813. As cousin Karl said, “maybe he didn’t know.”

 

On the 9th, feel free to eat a piece of cake in Old Dan’s honor.

 

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My hearty gratitude to two people this week. Annmarie Holmes added three tombstones from the Old Pioneer Cemetery and sent a photo to the maintainer of the fourth tombstone. Memorial numbers for Isaac and Mary Elizabeth Ketchum are 255857681 and 255857774.

 

Also, to Chris Neel, for his encouragement. Talking to him about sharing his daughter’s photo, he said, “also wanted to tell you that I really enjoyed your photos from Portage Vale. It really shows that you have a passion for what you do. It’s beautiful to see.”

 

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My genealogy goals for this week were:

 

  • Chronicle several times, and publish on Thursday morning.
  • Research James Malbie Hoyt and James Hoyt III.
  • Keep researching and writing about Daniel Holmes for the “Where There’s a Will” article.
  • Continue indexing old New Brunswick obituaries and death notices for the NBGS website project.
  • Make a pdf of Uncle Billy’s guest book.
  • Spend a bit of time on Moore family research.
  • Try to reinstall Family Tree Maker.

 

I chronicled several times. I researched the two Hoyts. Will the real James Hoyt please stand up? Actually, they are both real. I made a special Holmes copy of the guestbook. I worked on my “Where There’s a Will” article. I will wait until Julie comes home for help with reinstalling FTM.

 

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New this week on our cousin focus are cousins Brian Holmes and Patricia Yee.

 

I met Brian Holmes in person at the 2016 reunion. He is in the William line, the son of Fen and Bette (Hoon) Holmes. He is married to Jolynda Tresner and has two sons, JF and Jerry. I knew of Brian for much longer than that, though. Brian is a French horn player, a composer, a member of choirs, groups, and orchestras, and a retired physics and physics of music professor. He has built his own horn. My goal is to make him smile.

 

I met Brian’s cousin, Patricia Yee, also in 2016 at our reunion. She came with her sister, Kristin, and they followed up the reunion with a trip – I believe to England, going by my fuzzy memory. Trish is the daughter of Jerome and Alma (Vincent) Holmes. Fen and Jerome are the sons of Jerome C and Jennie (Edwards) Holmes. Jerome C was the son of William Nelson and Anna C (Heath) Holmes. Trish has three children, Jeff, Brady, and Lyndsay, and they with their spouses have given her seven grandchildren.

 

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I have completed Uncle Billy’s guest book scan – a special Holmes copy of Riverbank Visitors. That means that on the bottom of the page with a Holmes family member’s autograph, I have listed the names. Since, I’ve mentioned Chris Neel a couple of times in this newsletter, I thought I’d better show you a couple of pages, Chris.

 

If you wish a pdf copy, please ask and I’ll gladly send it to you. If I send it to you and you see an error or omission, please let me know. I’ll correct it and resend it to all who asked for a copy.

 

I love seeing my ancestor’s names in this guest book.

 

This guest book, Riverbank Visitors, is in public domain. All people mentioned therein are now deceased. Feel free to copy and distribute if you wish.

Click on photos to enlarge.

 





 

DIGGING DEEPER

ANOTHER INVASIVE SPECIES

James Hoyt

I continue with some of the invasive species in our family trees. The first article was in the chronicle of June 22. These are people who never actually grafted into our tree. Although they may have been fine people, they don’t belong. There is no sap of DNA. Way back whenever, someone said they were part of our family and unsuspecting genealogists added them to the point that they are now accepted as fact. The word is putative: “generally accepted or reputed to be.”   They belong in different trees. I am going to carefully continue the process of determining the validity of everyone in our tree. Actually, I’ve tried to do that for a long time, but now I want to be proactive about it. If you are a genealogist working on a different tree, I hope to motivate you to “dig deeper” for your own tree.

My intent is not to criticize but to critique. You are not obligated to change your trees, but I do urge you to study them and make your own decision based on the facts that you find. Think about the facts. Do they make sense? Do they corelate with other sources? Do the places make sense? Some people moved around, but many of them settled and stayed. What about dates and current events? What was going on at the time and place?

I was going to mention names, but that takes too much time. Genealogists, please check your trees. I don’t expect you to take my word for it – I hope you will “dig deeper.”

Does James Malbie Hoyt belong in our trees?

Who was James Malbie Hoyt?  Does he belong in our trees? Let’s look below the surface, and give some breathing space to our roots. In this particular case, don’t just check the name. It could be that you have plain James Hoyt, James Hoyt III, or James Malbie Hoyt. You also need to check your sources, for some of you, whether or not you included the Malbie/Maltbie name, have picked up sources for the wrong person.

If you did pick up James Malbie Hoyt as the son of James Hoyt II and Mary Ann Beldon, you are not alone. Most people, it seems, do. How can I ever hope to convince everyone on the internet? I can’t, of course. It is my hope that if we get it right, others won’t pick up the same mistake, at least from us.

Did James Malbie Hoyt exist? He did, although his middle name was Maltbie. Who was he? Was he the son of James Hoyt II and Mary Ann Beldon? Did he know our James? I don’t think so. The two had a couple of things in common. They were born about the same time, and they both descend from Simon Hoyt. One thing I will tell you is that it is easy to mix up these two James Hoyts. Another thing I will tell you is that our James Hoyt III doesn’t show up in Ancestry hints. If you have Ancestry’s hints in your tree, whether or not you use the Malbie in his name, they are probably for another James Hoyt. Do not be discouraged. In the past, I too have included James Malbie Hoyt in my tree. How did these two get so muddled?

I stated James Hoyt III’s birth place as Stamford, CT. So did Fen, on page 42, in “the Hoyt Line.”[1] Quoting Fen: “James Hoyt III was probably born in Stamford Connecticut, but we do not have any positive information.”  I did some thinking after I read Annmarie’s comment in her tree:

 

My answer is that he was probably born in Nova Scotia or New Brunswick. New Brunswick became a separate province from Nova Scotia in 1784, so don’t be misled. He and others who came from Stamford originally settled along the Saint John River in western Nova Scotia, now New Brunswick. My source for now thinking he was born in Nova Scotia/ New Brunswick is “Ice Out Past My House.” James Hoyt II’s information is documented, and he was in Long Island before coming to Canada. More information follows. Feel free to dig deeper into these historical events if you choose.

 

James Hoyt III

I have reviewed James Hoyt III, and inserted my own sources on Ancestry.

I cannot find a birth record for James Hoyt III, son of James Hoyt II and Mary Beldon, in the indexed records of the town of Stamford, or anywhere else. How then, did I know that he was born in or about 1784?

Here are the sources I have on Ancestry. I have none from Ancestry’s suggestions.

First is the indexed copy of his death record from the Anglican Church records. This is available with a membership at the New Brunswick Genealogical Society; you can view the indexes at the society with a guest account; members can see a copy of the register. In this case all of the information in the register is in the index. I have included a screen shot copy of the pertinent information of my sources. If you are reading my blog and want to see these sources, request an email.

An indexed view of the burial details of James Hoyt III in the Anglican Church Records.[2]

 

In “A Genealogical History of the Hoyt, Haight, and Hight Families,” by David W Hoyt,[i][3] you will find the children of James Hait or Hoyt (2916). This is a valuable resource to use carefully. Each person has a number.

Page 394:

I.                     Azor (3430) m. Hannah English; lived in New Brunswick; had chil., Samuel Beldon and Wm. Beldon . . .

II.                   James (3431) m. Fanny Ketchum; lived in New Brunswick; had child., Azor, m. Margaret Reid; Sally, m. Nelson Price; Charlotte, m. Dan’l Holmes: and perhaps a dau., m. Cornelius Snider.

III.                 William (3432)

 

From Azor Hoyt’s diary, published as “Ice Out Past my House,” we read: 1847 – Jan 11: Mr. James Hoyt died very suddenly.” Footnote 299 – editor states: “Brother to Azor Hoyt.” A reprint of this book, compiled by Jack Hoyt and edited by Sandra Keirstead Thorne, is available at the Kings County Museum. If you want to order a copy, I can get the address for you.

At the Provincial Archives of New Brunswick, Daniel F Johnson’s New Brunswick Newspaper Vital Statistics, we find an excerpt of James Hoyt’s death notice.[4] I wanted to read the whole thing – which may or may not be more detailed.

I visited the Harriet Irving Library of the University of New Brunswick, which is digitizing and adding old newspapers to their website. The last issue of the New Brunswick Courier on their site is in December 1946: less than a month before the one I want. Perhaps in time.

Where was James Hoyt II/Jr. when his son was born? Not Stamford; probably not Long Island. Fen has noted the Stamford probate record of “James Hait (sic), Junr. late of Stamford,” dated 1778. Fen probably saw the record; I have not seen it. (I did not realize they did probate records for living people.) I will give you the introduction to “Ice Out Past My House,” by Azor Hoyt, son of James Hoyt II and older brother of our James Hoyt III, which tell briefly of some of Junior’s exploits. I sent it last week, but you may not have kept it.

From the foreward of “Ice Out Past My House:”



Paragraph 3: “They lived in exile on Long Island for six years until the spring of 1783 when they, with many friends and relatives from Stamford, removed to St. John (sic), Nova Scotia (later New Brunswick). (New Brunswick became a separate province from Nova Scotia in 1784.)[5]

How do I know that our ancestor, James Hoyt III, was born c. 1784? I did the math.

James Malbie aka James Maltbie Hoyt

Here is my information on James Maltbie aka Malbie Hoyt.

From the Connecticut Town Birth Records, pre – 1870 (Barbour Collection) comes the source that should stop people in their research tracks: James Malbie Hoyt, Son of Hoyt, Samuel and Hannah, born July 11, 1785. [6] Herein we find the middle name error – in the transcription of the original record.  His parents are not Hoyt: James and Mary Ann. We should not go any further.

However, since many people just skim and click on suggestions, I will. Remember, once upon a time, I did have this in my tree.

Find A Grave # 24917809 for James Maltbie Hoyt gives his father as Samuel Hoyt (1751 – 1802) and mother as Hannah Maltbie (1762 – 1838). It gives his date and place of birth as 11 Jul 1785 in Stamford. That matches the Connecticut Town Birth Record. It gives his date and place of death as March 1824. That date of death does not match Connecticut, US Death and Burials or the US Hale Collection of Cemetery Inscriptions for St. John & St. Andrews Cemetery and Stamford, which state he died in March, 1821. The source for James M Hoyt, “US Citizen Affidavits of US born Seaman gives a date and place of birth as Stamford. Declaration port 1819 New York City.” That may or may not apply to James Maltbie Hoyt (I have my doubts but it is irrelevant to me), but it certainly does not apply to our James Hoyt who was alive and well in New Brunswick at the time.

The 1810 Census of James Hoyt of Stamford – a family of four – may or may not be for James Maltbie Hoyt.

Feel free to research further if you are still convinced that you descend from James Maltbie Hoyt. I am satisfied that I do not descend from James Maltbie Hoyt. He may have been a fine man, but he is not my ancestor. If he married and had a family, Find A Grave does not say so, and it is irrelevant to me.

I urge you to challenge me on any person or fact in my “Francis Holmes Family Tree.” I welcome the challenge. My other Holmes trees are gradually being incorporated into this tree, correct to the best of my knowledge at the time.

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It is easy to judge our ancestors’ actions or the cultural climate they lived in. The family historian, however, must be objective. Our ancestors did not live in our era and place, and to study their lives you must know about the culture and laws of their time – not ours. That involves digging deeper.

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Another Land Petition for Isaac Ketchum

 

This is still a WIP. I need to do the land grants as well. It’s a learning curve for me. Last week’s article is tucked into CCC.

 

There are two Isaac Ketchums in Kings County. They are cousins, according to Annmarie. Thanks for digging and sharing, Annmarie. People often mix up Isaac Ketchum, Esquire, who is buried in Hampton, NB, with our Isaac. He is not our Captain Isaac Ketchum who is buried in Portage Vale.

I located this petition at FamilySearch.[7]

 


 

 

 

To His Honor

Major General

George Stanley Smyth Esq

President and Commander in Chief of the

Province of New Brunswick

                                                                The Memorial of Isaac Ketchum of the

Parish of Sussex County of Kings

                                                                Humbly Sheweth

                                                                                That your petitioner having fully complied

With the Conditions of the Grant lately obtained from

Government near the source of the Salmon River, and

finding a lot of vacant land of One Hundred and Thirty

acres between the joint Grant to your Petitioner and

others, and the lot in said Grant obtained by Elias Snyder

most Humbly prays that your Honor will be graciously

pleased to Grant your petitioner said lot as no more

than two Hundred and fifty Acres of land has ever been

 Granted to him in the province. Your Petitioner in

settling the lot granted to him has been compelled to

open and improve a road of four miles in length.

Your Petitioner is sixty two years of age married, has ten

children has twenty acres of the land lately Granted to him

under good Cultivation Eight meat Cattle and and (sic)a good

Dwelling House and Barn on the same has taken the

oath of allegiance to his Majesty and Government and is of ability

to perform the Conditions of the Grant.

                And as in duty Bound your Petitioner will ever pray

Sussex Vale 15 September 1815.               

                                                                                Isaac Ketchum

               

 

 


 

This page is in three sections, probably folded at the time.

I do hereby certify that Isaac Ketchum is Sixty two

years of age married has ten Children, twenty acres of

the land lately Granted to him under good cultivation

has Eight meet Cattle a good Dewlling House and barn on the

Same, has taken the Oath of allegiance to his Majesty and

government, has had but two Hundred and fifty acres of land

Granted to him in this Province and is of ability to perform

the Conditions of the Grant

Sussex Kings}     15 September 1815       

County         }                                                      J. C. Leonard

 

We do certify that as commissioners of Road, we laid out

The road to the improvement made by Isaac Ketchum,

and that it is now compleatly (sic) opened and improved

and that the improvement on his land is very great.

 

                                                                                John Barbour

                                                                                Samuel Hallett

 

Memorial of Captain

Isaac Ketchum for

180 Acres land – at the source

of the Salmon River in the

Parish of Sussex.

                15 Feb[ruary] 1816

               

20th Sept 1815

 

20th Sept. 1815 The Lot applied forin this Memorial numbered 30 is Vacant and Contains 130 acres

With 40 rods front – it joins the Lot of 1000 acres

Granted to Isaac Ketchum and three Sons.

 

                                                                                Geo: Sproule

 

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Not all of the photos/screen shots are included. Request an email if you want to see everything.

I know. This is a lot to digest and it is summer, after all. Enjoy your summer days. We haven’t had many here in New Brunswick, so I keep researching and writing.

 



[1] Holmes, Fenwicke W., compiler.  Holmes/Hoon Genealogy. “The Holmes Line.” Unpublished typescript, edition of 2002. Page 42.

[2] Anglican Church Records. NBGS. (Membership or guest membership needed to view. https://arp.nbgstwo.ca/records/displayRecord/MC223-S15-6C1a-0016_burial_0080

[3] Hoyt, David W. A Genealogical History of the Hoyt, Haight, and Hight Families. Providence. Printed for the Author by the Providence Press. Co. Boston: Henry Hoyt. 1871, Pages 355 and 394. https://books.google.ca/books?id=5ow9k6vp2AYC&printsec=frontcover&source=gbs_ge_summary_r&cad=0#v=onepage&q&f=false

[4] Provincial Archives of New Brunswick. Daniel F Johnson’s New Brunswick Newspaper Vital Statistics. New Brunswick Courier, Saint John, NB, Vol. 11, Number 1979, date of issue January 23, 1847. https://archives.gnb.ca/Search/NewspaperVitalStats/Details.aspx?culture=en-CA&guid=b89a3d7f-87d8-4df7-b12a-de8109e2bf3a&r=1&ni=142877

[5] Hoyt, Jack E., editor and compiler, and Sandra Keirstead Thorne, genealogical notes. Ice Out Past My House – the Diary of Azor Hoyt: A King’s County Loyalist. 1993.

[6] Connecticut, U.S., Town Birth Records, pre - 1870, (Barbour Collection) for James Malbie Hoyt. https://www.ancestry.ca/discoveryui-content/view/147938:1034?tid=&pid=&queryId=a4d30e64d6de9039ad6c83b417b26281&_phsrc=msu1721&_phstart=successSource

[7] "New Brunswick, Canada records, Aug 4, 2018," images, FamilySearch (https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/3:1:3Q9M-CSV5-13HX-4?view=explore : Jul 4, 2023), image 366 of 830; New Brunswick. Crown Land Office.

https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/3:1:3Q9M-CSV5-13HX-4?view=explore&groupId=TH-909-70949-88089-62

 

 



 

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