Thursday, March 2, 2023

Your Outline is Like Your Underwear

 

Uncle Peg’s Chronicles

March 2, 2023

“Your Outline is Like Your Underwear”

 

 

Number of pages in Outline Descendant Report: 161(up from 159 last chronicle)

Number of pages in the basic Descendant Report: 244 (up from 242 last chronicle)

 

Francis Holmes is # 1. I am now # 339. # 336, where I was last week, is now Anne Marie Holmes Gautreau.

Jonathan Marquez (Frances Anne Holmes Ballantyne line) is last at # 501.

# 498, where he was last week, is now Kenneth D Williams.

This should change weekly, if I’m doing my job.

 

Something new in stats, just for fun:

 

I put the names of all descendants of Francis Holmes who are either in our Facebook group or on my mailing list for chronicles, in a bag. Spouses and friends are not included as they do not get numbered in the program’s default. Those who have no descendants are also not numbered, but I’ll include them with their parent’s number. I pull out three names, and include them for two weeks. Next week, I’ll draw three more. This is for fun, but if the three names I drew were not in my tree that I am using now, I insert them. Win-win exercise.

 

The three I drew last week are:

 

·         Marie Holmes Dockter is # 291, up from # 288, who is now Peter Guy Holmes.

·         Melanie Holmes Bowes is # 461, up from # 458, who is now Kevin Leaman.

·         Cindy Lutes Steeves is # 347, up from # 344, who is now Douglas A Holmes.  

 

New this week are: Dana Fogg, Amy Guynn, and James Oksen

 

Dana Fogg, #431, is married to Sarah Bernd and has a son, Benjamin. He is in the Charles R Holmes line, through his parents, Richard and Prudence ‘Prudy’ Thornton Fogg. You and  I met him at the 2016 reunion, if you were there, along with his sisters, Phyllis and Jean. I’ve known about them for years, and I was so happy to meet them. My mother wanted to call me Prudence after Dana’s mother, but Dad vetoed that.

 

Well, those didn’t turn out very well, even with editing. It’s a scan of a scan. That’s Dana’s birth announcement, made by his artist Mama. On the picture of the baby it says: “A little Fogg just blew in. The poem reads, “The rain may fall, the sun may shine, but we’ll have a “little Fogg” all the time. My Gram kept this.

 

Amy MacKillop Guynn is # 452, and is in the Charles R Holmes line as well. She is married to Brandon Guynn, and has two young sons; the oldest is in elementary school. She’s one of the MacKillops who is descended from the McKillops as well as the Holmeses, through her parents, Ray and Brenda Miller MacKillop. I haven’t met her and her brothers, Mark and David, in person, but I think (fuzzy memory) I met her father. My Mum was close to her grandfather and his brother, so I’ve heard about them all my life.

 

 James Oksen, # 392, is in the William N Holmes line and is married to Audra Bogardus. He has a grown daughter, Bryanna Oksen Murray, and a grown son, Trevor Oksen, and at least two grandchildren. We met Jim at the 2016 reunion, when he reunited with his Holmes cousins for a reunion within a reunion – said cousin, Glenn Holmes. I think, if I figured it out right, second cousins once removed. Jim’s mother, Sharon Holmes Oksen, married to James Oksen, is a sister of Glenn’s. Jim seemed to enjoy himself immensely, and looking back at the photos, yes, I know he did.

 

 

FYI, this takes a lot of time, but it’s kind of fun. I do it on Tuesdays rather than Thursdays. Watch for your name.

 

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My genealogy goals for this week were:

 

·         Update Villa Warren’s ancestors and make the template I want and that Elizabeth is pleased with.

·         Chronicle several times, and publish on Thursday morning.

·         Add a few more people to the tree so the stats move.

·         Start researching and writing about Jonathan Maltbie for the “Where There’s a Will” article.

·         Continue working on my April presentation, “Hook, Lines, and Sinker” for the genealogical society.

·         Revise Richard Holmes for Generations.

I updated Villa Warren’s ancestors as well as Anna Heath’s. Thanks, Ann Marie, for the help. I need to look them over with fresh eyes, and then, I think I am done compiling. I just need to do the organization, send it off, and I will be tout fini.

I chronicled, but procrastinated so had to do most of this all at once. The stats moved a bit.

I am deep into the life of Richard Holmes again. I am working on the umteenth revision. I have checked and rechecked the transcripts, and now need to cut, cut, cut. I started with 29 pages and I am down to 9 – my goal is 8 max. I regret deleting the map. Thursday morning update: I think I am done.

I emailed Cindy for details about the story of our grandfather, Floyd Holmes, almost drowning. That is for my presentation in April. I will work on the presentation while I am in Ontario and Julie and Marc are working.

 

“He (Floyd Holmes, our grandfather) was walking home from Uncle Cecil’s and back then there was a log that he had to walk on to cross the brook. It was cold and he had his hands in his pockets. He lost his balance crossing the log and fell into the brook with his hands in his pants pockets. He could not get his hands out of the wet pockets but eventually managed to get upright and out of the brook. He used to tell me to take my hands of my pockets. I thought it was because I was not being girly but Mom told me that it was probably because he was afraid I would hurt myself . . .

 

Several posts later . . . It was his change! I remember Mum said he wouldn’t take his hands out because he had change in his pocket, so he almost drowned.

 

I made a slide for my April presentation about making an outline for an article:

 

“Your outline is like your underwear.

You want it to be neat and tidy, mended, comfortable, a good fit, and discreet.

You don’t want to show it off.

But, just in case, you want it be there.”

 

Do you think it profound, or in poor taste? Hoping to add some humour so that this will be a fun workshop. Since working on this workshop off and on, I’ve been intentionally making and bettering my outlines. This last one about Great X many generations Uncle Richard really paid off when it came time to revise, for I kept referring back to my purpose statement. If what I said didn’t pertain to that – out it went. Stephen King would be proud of me.

 

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For those of you not in our Facebook group, I want to tell you about Mary Ellen Mavrides Fielding, widow of Guy Fielding of the Hattie Holmes line. Mary Ellen wasn’t feeling well, and upon visiting the doctor and taking tests, they determined that she has stage four pancreatic cancer. She will not have chemo. She also has several blood clots. She is keeping us up to date and every day, if I don’t see something from her, I go directly to her Facebook to check on her.

 

Her cancer is terminal. She has been given six months. It is her wish to see her grandson, J J, who lives with her, graduate this year. Of course, she is experiencing different emotions, but she tries to remain cheerful and positive for the sake of her family. She is going home to hospice care, and plans to do what she can, including going out. Her son Dan and his wife Kimberly were with her on the weekend; not sure if they stayed.

 

Please keep Mary Ellen in mind. If you are in our Facebook group, she does look at what I share. I know she appreciates thoughts and prayers, and she also likes encouragement and pretties. So, if you feel like posting photos of flowers or the like, go ahead. Talk to her! Introduce yourself, tell her how strong she is, whatever.

 

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I am going to share my article about Uncle Richard with you. If you read it, please let me know if you see any typos and whether or not it is clear to you. If not, I will cry. Not really, but it goes to the editor soon.

Do not worry about typos or misspellings within the will (in italics) – I have to transcribe exactly what I see. I have checked that part many times.

 

 

WHERE THERE’S A WILL

Richard Holmes c.1637 – 1704

His wife, Sarah (Grant) Holmes c.1637- 1706

 

Compiled by Peggy Vasseur

“The Holmes’ of America may be proud of their Norwalk kinsman.

He was a brother of the founders of the Stamford and Bedford Holmes families . . .”[1]

 

Tempers matched the heat of the forge where John, Samuel, and William sat on well-worn stools. There, they had whiled away many an hour with Richard, discussing everything from their families, Sunday’s sermon, the militia, and whether or not there were witches in Norwalk. They reviewed Sarah’s inventory. “You read the will?” growled one. “Yes.” “You know what they are saying at the Court?” spat another. “Yes.” “Saw Mrs. Olmsted the other day,” admitted the third, “and could hardly look her in the eye. Like to throw this in the fire, but what can we do? Mehitabel deserves better.”

“Let’s tell the judge how we feel,” they decided. Dipping the quill into the inkwell, he began to write. “These may further inform the Honnored Courtt Now sitting in Fairfield that therein one Mehittibell Warner . . .”

 

Where there’s a will, there may be problems. The probate of Richard Holmes’ last will and testament must be linked to his wife’s inventory and probate.  The history leading up to these records; the complications arising from the administration of it; and the decisions made regarding the distribution disturbed me. I felt the need to preserve it for my family history. I do not believe the Prerogative Court considered Richard’s will and wishes whatsoever in making their final decision.   



      

First Settlers of Norwalk Memorial[1]  

Richard Holmes, son of my immigrant ancestor, Francis Holmes, left his boyhood home in Stamford, Connecticut, and moved to Norwalk, Connecticut, purchasing his lot in 1657 from Thomas Smith. Rev. Selleck wrote, “Richard Holmes, of Home-Lot No. 4, son of Francis, 1648, of Stamford, than whom there was hardly a more important man in the settlement, was seemingly the iron and brass-monger of the new colony, and lived next neighbor north of Mark St. John. His grounds and the site of the ancient ‘Smithery’ are now partly covered by the East Norwalk Methodist Episcopal Church. His industry – that of nail, gun, lock and possibly blacksmith – was held in estimation by the proprietors. On May 30, 1655, town meeting action was taken whereby two of Norwalk’s principal men were deputed ‘for the fetching of the tools pertaining to the Smith from Stratford.’ Mr. Holmes was a thrifty man, and his history is of interest. It is inferred that he was not actually the first ‘smith,’ but he must have succeeded, by only a short time, that primus artisan.”[1]

Richard married, about 1672, Sarah Grant, daughter of Seth and Elizabeth (MNU) Grant. They had no children of their own, but raised two children: Mehitabel Warner, from a couple of weeks of age, and Jonathan Stevens, from about four or five years old.                                                                                                         Seth Grant arrived in New England from England in 1632, on the Lyon. He first lived in Cambridge, Massachusetts. By 1636, he was an early settler of Hartford, Connecticut. Seth Grant married Elizabeth, and they had two daughters, Sarah and Elizabeth. Seth died about 1647 in Hartford. [1]           Sarah married Richard Holmes,[1] and Elizabeth married Robert Warner.”[1] The copy of the records of the family of Robert Warner and Elizabeth Grant, above, is from the Connecticut Marriage Index.[1]                                                                                                                                                                                        This index shows that after a few weeks of giving birth to her daughter, Mehitabel, Elizabeth (Grant) Warner passed away on December 26, 1673. Mehitabel was, according to this record, born on November 21, 1673.                                                                                                                                                     Elizabeth, according to Connecticut Church Record Abstracts, died on October 27, 1673. Mehitabel was baptized on September 9, 1673.

Mehettabell, d[aughter] Rob[er]t, b[a]p[tized] 9th mo[nth] 16th day,1673; her mother d[ied] [Octo]b[e]r 27th day, 1673.[1]

There is obviously an error somewhere. If Mehitabel was baptized on September 16th, she could not have been born on November 21. The church record makes more sense.                                                     Shortly after the death of her sister, Elizabeth, Sarah Holmes went to Middletown to fetch her niece, Mehitabel. She and Richard raised her to adulthood. Richard, in his will, stated that she still lived in his home. The administrators of Sarah Holmes’ inventory stated in their endorsement that Mehitabel Warner, the survivor of Richard and Sarah, was Sarah’s niece, and that soon after the death of the child’s mother, Sarah went to Middletown and brought the child home to her husband.[1]               Jonathan Stevenson was the son of Jonathan Stevenson and his wife, Mary Allen, widow of Thomas Allen. Jonathan Sr. died in battle when he was young,[1] and Richard and Sarah took his son in as a servant until he came of age. When Jonathan’s mother remarried John Bouton shortly thereafter, Jonathan stayed with the Holmes family. I believe, therefore, that Jonathan was an indentured servant.

The Last Will and Testament, Inventory, and Probate documents are at these links.

Last Will and Testament, Inventory, and Probate Records of Richard Holmes at Ancestry

https://www.ancestry.ca/imageviewer/collections/9049/images/007628167_00856?pId=1252065

Last Will and Testament, Inventory, and Probate Records of Richard Holmes at FamilySearch

https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/3:1:3QS7-892K-TRF6?i=597&cat=359148

Inventory and Probate Records of Sarah (Grant) Holmes at Ancestry

https://www.ancestry.ca/imageviewer/collections/9049/images/007628167_00862?pId=1252071

Inventory and Probate Records of Sarah (Grant) Holmes at FamilySearch

https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/3:1:3QS7-892K-TRXC?i=638&cat=359148

 

The will at FamilySearch is written in one long paragraph; I divided it for ease of reading. I am including a copy of the first portion of the will. The rest will be my transcripts and commentary; you can view the records at the above links. I have done my best to transcribe the documents accurately; I may have made errors.

 

Norwalk October 31t day in [th]e year of o[ur] Lord 1704. In the Name of god amen know yee [tha]t I Richard Holmes of Norwalke being by [th]e Good hand of god arrived at [th]e heel of my old age of sixty years & upwards & now being under [th]e afflicting hand of god at present & being sensible of my mutabillity and mortallity [tha]t may overtake me god only knows therefore for good Consideration moving me thereunto whilst yet I have through gods favour [th]e Use of my Right reason & of my perfect memory I do see Cause and good reason to make my will to [th]e End I may dispose of my worldly Estate before death so as may be to gods glory and my own peace and [th]e Comfort of those [tha]t I shall leave behind: therefore this I declare to be my last will and Testament as followeth

Impr[imi]s I freely give and bequeath my poor Immortall Soul into [th]e hand of my great and Good God that Gave it to [th]e armes of my great redeemer [tha]t so deerly bought it and my poor and Crazy body to [th]e dust from whence it Came by a Comly and decent buriall and as for my worldly Estate I dispose of

as followeth [th]e which god hath Given me as follows . .

I do not know the cause of Richard’s death, but I believe that he suffered from some ailment for a while. He was well into his old age; he was under the afflicting hand of God. He had cause and good reason to write his will. And, he had a poor and crazy body.                                                                                          He was now about 67 years of age. Although he attributes his poor health to God, he still calls Him good, and as his redeemer, great. The Online Etymology Dictionary gives early definitions of the word “crazy” as diseased or sickly (now obsolete).[1]

. . . I Will and bequeath to my well beloved wife Sarah Holmes, all [th]e whole ­­­­____ of all my Whole Estate [tha]t I shall ­­­­­­­­dispossesed of making her hereby my Sole Executrix and Administratrix she first paying all my Just debts and [th]e remainder to be and remain to her proper Use and bennifit during [th]e time of her Naturall life: and at her decease I will and bequeath unto her . . .

Richard made his wife, Sarah (Grant) Holmes, his heir, executrix, and administratrix. Then, he made provision for Sarah’s estate as well as his own. I cannot transcribe one word or phrase in the first line.

. . . near kinswoman Mehitabell Warner now with me my now dwelling house and home lot barns orchard with all the fencing and Privilidges pertaining thereunto at my wives decease allso I Give unto [th]e afores[ai]d Mehitabell Warner affores[ai]d my ox hill lot now within fence and also I Give to [th]e affores[ai]d Mehitabell my bogge swampe and meadow below pine hill allso I Give to her my Litle Salt meadow lot near to Rocky Springs lyeing between John Fitch and Joseph Gregory also I Give to her Annually one Load of Salt meadow haye of my halfe mile Island meadow also I Give unto her Namely Mehitabell Warner after my wives decease all of my moveable Estate therein being within doors and without as well Catle horse kinde sheep and swine and household goods: . . .

Richard referred to Mehitabel as Sarah’s “near kinswoman.” She was Sarah’s niece, whom they raised from infancy.  She was to receive the bulk of Richard and eventually Sarah’s estate upon their deaths.

 . . . my Smith tools Excepted allso I Except som small Legacies to be paid out of my movable Estate at my wiffes decease as follows: . . .

After listing his real and moveable estate that he wished to leave to Mehitabel, Richard made an exception of his smith tools. The last line of his will states . . . “my Smith Tools above Excepted I now leave with my wife to dispose of as Shee Shall see good.” He also stated that he wished to leave some small legacies to other individuals.

. . . to Jonathan Stevenson [th]e son of Jonathan Stevenson dec[ease]d ten pound [tha]t was my Servant formerly whom I Brought up from a Childe also I Give to Samuell Hayes Sen[io]r of Norwalke fourty shilings in provision pay or out of my movable Estate And allso twenty shiling apiece to Thomas and Richard Bouton the two youngest sons now of John Bouton Sen[io]r of Norwalke . . .

Jonathan Stevenson Sr. married Mary Allen in 1684. After her husband’s death in 1689, Mary, widow of Thomas Allen and Jonathan Stevenson, remarried widower John Bouton[1] and had two more sons, Thomas and Richard. These boys were the two youngest sons of John Bouton, and half-brothers to Jonathan. Jonathan, Jr., was to receive ten pounds, and the Bouton children twenty shillings each.                  I do not know why he willed Samuell Hayes forty shillings.

. . . Memorandum I also Give to [th]e s[ai]d Mehitable Warner [th]e one halfe of my Cow lot so Commonly Called and all [th]e remainder of my Lands and meadows laid out to me and do or hereafter doth or may Appertaine to me I Give and bequeath to [th]e now daughters of my well beloved Brothers namely John Holmes Sen[io]r of Bedford and Stephen Holmes Sen[io]r of Standford and their heirs for Ever to be Equally divided to Each one of the s[ai]d daughters and now hereby . . .

After he willed to those individuals mentioned previously, whatever remained of his estate was to go to his nieces, the daughters of his brothers, John Holmes Sr. of Bedford, New York, and Stephen Holmes Sr. of Stamford, Connecticut or their heirs, to be equally divided between them.

. . . I do Revoake and make Void and Null all former wills whatever and make this my last will witness my hand and Seal set to [th]e day and date above s[ai]d my wareing apparell I Give to my Brother & now hereby John Holmes of Bedford if living if not then to Brother Stephen Holmes my Smiths Tools above Excepted I now leave with my wife to dispose of as Shee shall se good . . .

Richard made null and void all former wills, but after he wrote the date, he had an afterthought: his clothing. Nothing was disposable. His left his clothing to his brother, John; if John predeceased him, it should go to his brother, Stephen. He left the disposal of his smith tools to his wife’s discretion.

Signed Sealed and delivered                                                                         Richard Holmes                 [Seal]

In p[re]sents of us witnesses                                                                        his   R   mark

Joseph Gregory

     His J mark

John Copp

Joseph Gregory and John Copp witnessed Richard’s last will and testament. Joseph Gregory and Richard Holmes made their marks.                                                                                                                                           That concludes the transcript of the last will and testament of Richard Holmes. Next is the probate.

Richard Holms of Norwalk being deceased The his will and Inventory being Exhibited to [th]e Prerogative Court held In Fairfield decembe[r] 6: 1704 In order to A Setlement and with Reference to [th]e s[ai]d will one of [th]e witneses not being present [th]e Court ses Cause to defer [th]e [th]e probate of s[ai]d Will there of but do Aprove [th]e s[ai]d Inventory and do order it to be Recorded

The first problem I encountered was that one of the witnesses to the signing of the will was not present on December 6th. Therefore, the Inventory was approved, but the approval for the probate was deferred. As there was no further mention of this, the problem must have been rectified.

The Prerogative Court held In Fairfield that this [thir]d of Jan[uar]y: 1704 having Considered [th]e the pleas for & against [th]e Probate of [th]e will of Richard Holmes of Norwalk deceased with also what further Testimony hath appeared Concerning [th]e s[ai]d Holmes his Cappasity for make his will at [th]e time of making thereof and do allow and approved of s[ai]d Will (it being sufficiently proved) and do order it to be Recorded . . .

Nathan Gold Clerke

 

The second problem I encountered appears to be that the will was challenged; by whom is not stated. Joseph Gregory and John Copp testified in court that they had witnessed Richard Holmes sign his Last Will and Testament, and judged him to be in his right mind.  After Judge and Clerk, Nathan Gold, considered the pleas for and against the probate of the will, he considered it sufficiently proved, and ordered it to be recorded. Note that the year 1704 was actually 1705; January was prior to Lady Day.                       I consider the lengthy process of the probate as problem three. Had it been executed and distributed earlier, the rest of the complications might not have occurred. It seems to have been set aside for a two-year interim. I go next to Sarah’s inventory and probate.

 

Sarah Holmes Widow Relict of Richard Holmes of Norwalk dec[ease]d who was Executrix of his last will and Testament being also dec[ease]d and the s[ai]d will not fully Executed the Prerogative Court held In fairfield decembe[r] 4 1706: do Grant Power of Administration on said Estate unto M[r]. Sam[ue]ll Haies

and John Bouton both of Norwalk they to Execute and perform th[e] s[ai]d Will and make return of their Adm[inistration] to [th]e Court In fairfield when Caled for by th[e] Court Also the Court do Appoint and Impower the aforesaid Sam[ue]ll Haies and John Bouton to Adm[inister] on [th]e Estate of the s[ai]d Sarah Holmes they to make A perfect Inventory of [th]e her estate and the same to Exhibit to [th]e s[ai]d Court within thre mounthes next After this date for A farther Setlement And the s[ai]d Samuell Haies acknowledgeth him Selfe bound to [th]e Court In [th]e Recognizance of fifty pounds for A faithfull discharge of their office according to [th]e above Order of Court Here followeth An Inventory of the Estate of Sarah Holmes Widow Relict of Richard Holmes late of Norwich dec[ease]d

The death of the executrix of Richard Holmes’ estate is problem four. The Prerogative Court appointed Samuel Hayes and John Bouton, both of Norwalk, to administer and execute Richard’s estate and make a return of their administration. They were also to administer the estate of Sarah Holmes.

 

on the 19 day of Desembe[r] 1706

An inventory taken By us whos Name are Hear and underwrightin off the Estate thatt Sarah HoLms died posesed off whe deseased on the 18 day off Novembe[r] att Norwalk in the year 1706 as Follows . . .

In this Ancestry version of Sarah’s Inventory, we find a record of Sarah’s date and place of death. John Bouton, Samuell Hayes, and William Haines signed for taking the inventory. The first portion included a few items of clothing, valued at four pounds, fourteen shillings, and six denarii. The second portion included the shop tools.

The FamilySearch and the Ancestry versions differ slightly.

 

FamilySearch:

Also Smiths Tooles one pare of Bellows 1£: 15s: Anvill 2£: 10

Grind Stone and winch 1£: 3s: other Small things tooles

Sledg hammers Tongs and Small tooles at 2£: 6s:

 

Ancestry:

Shop Toolls or Smith tools are as Foslows

one paier off Bellows 01£- 15s one viz 01£: Bick Horn 09S

Anuill 02£- 10s grind ston ____ 01£- 3s other small toolls

____ Sleege Hammors tongs and small tooll: att 02£- 06

The appraisers gave more detail about the smith’s tools than they did in Richard’s inventory, below: bellows, a vice, a bick iron, an anvil, a grindstone, a winch, sledge hammers, tongs, and other small tools. There are two words or phrases I could not make out.

The beautiful calligraphy of Richard’s inventory at Ancestry is relatively easy to read. [1]

 

 

allso we Find given to her namely to the afforsaid Sarah Holms  the widow and Relect off Richard Holms Desesed in his Last will thatt he give to his then Bloved wiff Sarah Holmes above said and to her disposeall his Smith toolls ther in Being and she having disposed of a Small Hammer or to or the Lik to a ­­­­very Small matter as to inallew and the Remainder now Remaing we Doe judge it nessesary to tak a strictt vew off them and have aprised them acording to the first apyrizall of ____ persons Commpared thereunto according to Law and finding the things in good order and and the aprizall there of to our good satisfaction as just:  withoutt any wrong Don to any that may Be Conssrnd Hear after the withal . . .

Is this problem five? The widow gave away a few of the smith’s tools, a hammer or two or the like, that Richard had willed to her discretion. As I read it, the appraisers took the tool inventory seriously, but doubted that anyone concerned was done any harm. I believe they compared Sarah’s inventory to others, but there is one word before “persons” I cannot transcribe. In Richard’s inventory, the items related to his blacksmith business, his iron, steel, and other tools, were appraised at fourteen pounds.

                                                                                                                                                               

The Adm[inistration] of the Estate of Sarah Holmes Late of Norwalk dec[ease]d: having Exhibited An Inventory of her Estate to [th]e Prerogative Court held In fairfield decembe[r] [th]e 23:1706: [th]e Court do accept of And Approve [th]e s[ai]d Inventory and do order it to be Recorded and the Court do find that there is Clere devidable Estate amounting to [th]e Sum of 12£:10s: There being as this Court is Informed Sundry Children of Robert Warner late of Midletown dec[ease]d: who are the next of kind In Equall degree to [th]e afores[ai]d deceased Sarah Holmes the Court do therefore order that [th]e s[ai]d Estate shall be devided and distributed to the Children of [th]e aforesaid Warner and their Legall Representatives In Equall proportion and the Court do desire And Appoint Sam[ue]ll Haies & John Bouton to make distribution of [th]e s[ai]d Estate according to [th]e above order of Court and to Send an ac[coun]t hereof to [th]e severall persons Who have Right to receive [th]e said Estate

There was no signature of clerk or judge on this page.

The Administrators, John Bouton and Samuel Hayes, exhibited the Inventory of Sarah’s estate to the Prerogative Court on December 23, 1706, as instructed. This is problem six. The Court learned that Sarah’s brother-in-law, the late Robert Warner of Middletown, deceased, left several children. They were of equal degree to their Aunt Sarah, the decedent. The Court made the decision to divide the estate of Sarah Holmes in equal proportion to Mehitabel and her siblings.

How disappointed the administrators must have been; how sick at heart for their friends. Knowing Richard and Sarah personally, and knowing Richard’s wishes, they had given an endorsement with their inventory to the court which read as follows:

 

Thes may Further inform the Honnored Courtt N[o]w sitting in Fairfield that this therein one Mehittibell Warner now suruiffing who was a very nearly ReLatted this sarah holms above named and was her owne sisters Child and Soon after the death of the Childs mother this Richard Holms and his then wif Sarah holms the Child owne antt went up to midilltown and Brought this child home to her Husband and as we have offin heard them say that thay ded tak itt as ther own Child and ever senc to our knowlidg they have Carfully Cared for her she namely the aforsaid Mehittabell Warner and She hath Caried very Duttifull and Rescpectily towards Her uncell and antt unto ther diying day and as her Honnred uncell hath acknowlided Her also fore an Haire to his Estate we pray she may not Be dened Her wright to this Her owne anntt and adopted mother Estate whom She so dearly Loved

John Bouton and Samuel Hayes, as well as William Haines, had previously written that Mehitabel Warner was Sarah’s sister’s child, and that soon after the death of the child’s mother, Elizabeth (Grant) Warner, Sarah went to Middletown and brought her home to her husband. They wrote that they had often heard them tell the story of how they took her in as their own child, and had carefully cared for her. Mehitabel, in turn, had cared for her uncle and aunt until their dying days. As her uncle acknowledged her an heir to his estate, they had pleaded that she not be denied her right to her adopted mother’s estate.                                                                                                                                                     What of the will of Richard Holmes, whose instructions were specifically laid out for both his death and Sarah’s? To whom did he wish his estate to go?                                                                                                               First, he willed everything to his beloved wife, and after her death, to Mehitabel Warner, the bulk of his estate. Also, he bequeathed some legacies to others: Jonathan Stevenson, the lad he raised as a servant; Samuel Hayes, a good friend; Thomas and Richard Bouton, sons of John and Mary Bouton and half-brother of Jonathan; his nieces; and his brothers.                                                                                                               The names of every one of the legatees except Mehitabel, to whom Richard wished to leave an inheritance or legacy, are omitted in the distribution orders. It does not appear that the judge even considered Richard’s last will and testament.

John Bouton of Norwalke one of the Adm[inistrator]s: to [th]e Estate of Richard Holms dec[cease]d:  is also deceased and Therefore the Prerogative Court held In fairfield Jan[uar]y 27 1706 do Appoint John Benidick of Norwalke to Joine with M[r] Sam[ue]ll Hayes in the worke of Adm[inistration]: on [th]e Estate of [th]e s[ai]d Holmes and the Executing what Remains to be don according the will of [th]e s[ai]d Richard Holmes and also to Finish the worke of Administration and distribution of the Estate of the deceased Sarah Holmes according [th]e order of Court decembe[r]: 23: 1706

Problem 7 was the sudden death of John Bouton, one of the administrators of the two wills. I did not find his exact date of death; Find A Grave gives January, 1707. Note that the date in the paragraph, 1706, occurred before Lady Day, so the year was 1707. The court appointed John Benedict to assist Samuel Hayes in the execution and disposition of the estates of Richard Holmes and Sarah (Grant) Holmes.                                                                                                                                                                                      What reasons did Richard give for making his will? He wanted to dispose of his estate before his demise. A Puritan, he willed his worldly goods for God’s glory. He wrote it for his own peace of mind, and for the comfort of those he would leave behind. He chose specific people as his legatees. He did not name his wife’s nieces and nephews, aside from Mehitabel, in his will.                                                                                           Did the judge of the Prerogative Court make the correct decision? I cannot state unequivocally that they erred, but I do consider Bouton, Hayes, and Haines’ plea of endorsement to the Court on behalf of Mehitabel Warner, by this time Mehitabel Olmsted, a good reason to believe they erred. These men, according to their plea, knew Richard and Sarah well. I like to think that these friends often sat in the blacksmith’s shop, smoking their pipes, discussing the news, and swapping stories. They knew that Richard chose Mehitabel as an heir, and pleaded that she not be denied her right to her inheritance. Instead, she shared it equally with her siblings, and the other legatees were ignored.      

 

 

[1] Selleck, Rev. Charles M., A.M. Norwalk. Volume 1. Norwalk, Conn.:  Published by the Author. 1896. Pages 103, 104. https://books.google.ca/books?id=FulEAAAAYAAJ&lpg=PA103&ots=fu_EqqLaZQ&dq=richard+holmes+norwalk&pg=PA102#v=onepage&q=richard%20holmes%20norwalk&f=false

[1] Find A Grave. First Settlers of Norwalk Memorial. Photo added by Matthew Fatale. https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/5017/first_settlers_of_norwalk_memorial

[1] Selleck, Rev. Charles M., A.M. Norwalk. Volume 1. Page 102.  

[1] Ancestry. New England, The Great Migration and the Great Migration Begins: Immigrants to New England 1620 – 1633. Volume II, G – O. Images 130, 131; pages 804, 805.

https://www.ancestry.ca/discoveryui-content/view/53820:2496?_phsrc=lyz22435&_phstart=successSource&gsfn=Seth&gsln=Grant&ml_rpos=2&queryId=f6b3e640ef13e1d991879566d6f99c4d

[1] Ancestry. U.S., New England Marriages Prior to 1700 for Sarah Holmes. Third Supplement to Torrey’s New England Marriages Prior to 1700. https://www.ancestry.ca/imageviewer/collections/3824/images/flhg_supptorreysnewengmarr2-0164?pId=900178968

[1] Ancestry. U. S., New England Marriages, pre – 1870 (Barbour Collection) for Robert Warner. Middletown Part II K – Z and No Surname 1651 – 1854. https://www.ancestry.ca/imageviewer/collections/1062/images/VBMDUSACT1634_0027-0299?pId=409521

[1] Ancestry. Connecticut, U.S., Marriage Index, 1620 – 1926 for Robert Warner. Middlesex – 1640 – 1808. Volume II, G – O. Film number 001513707. Image 204, page 85.

https://www.ancestry.ca/imageviewer/collections/61367/images/TH-1961-43914-4644-51?pId=16545

[1] Ancestry. Connecticut, U.S., Church Record Abstracts, 1630 – 1920 for Mehettabell Warner. Volume 070, Part 2 – Middletown. Image 279, page 606.

https://www.ancestry.ca/imageviewer/collections/3032/images/41107_620303988_0361-00279?pId=600300

[1] Ancestry. Connecticut, U.S., Wills and Probate Records, 1609 – 1999 for Sarah Holmes. Image 863.

https://www.ancestry.ca/imageviewer/collections/9049/images/007628167_00863?pId=1252071

[1] Ancestry. Stevenson, John R, A.M., M.D. Thomas Stevenson of London, England and His Descendants. New Jersey, Flemington, Hunterdon County: Hiram Edmund Deats. 1902. Images 138, 139; pages 131, 132.

https://www.ancestry.ca/imageviewer/collections/61157/images/46155_b289915-00001?pId=1342841

[1] Online Etymology Dictionary. https://www.etymonline.com/search?q=crazy

[1] Ancestry. Stevenson, John R, A.M., M.D. Thomas Stevenson of London, England and His Descendants..

[1] Ancestry. Connecticut, U.S., Wills and Probate Records, 1609 – 1999 for Richard Holmes. Image 860.

https://www.ancestry.ca/imageviewer/collections/9049/images/007628167_00860?pId=1252065

 

I will be back in a couple of weeks, as I go all aboard the train this Sunday, heading west. No
WORD on my tablet, so I can only research.

 

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